Kind Treatment of Spouses

I am married and have 2 kidz.the problem i face is my husband is dark and because of it i can’t love him from the depth of my heart eventhough i dont show it out and remain as a good wife.most of the time i feel sad.please guide me

07 Aug

ANSWER: Color and beauty is just skin deep and what really matters is if he’s a practicing Muslim who provides for you and the kids. You must be grateful to Allah that you’re married, there are plenty of women out there crying to get married and would give anything to be in your shoes and […]

When we say, a wife is not obliged to serve her parents-in-law, they say, it becomes obligatory if the husband commands to do so. Because it is obligatory to obey husband’s command. Is it true? If it is, then every husband will command like this and will make it obligatory upon women.

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Kind Treatment of Spouses

17 Jul

ANSWER: No, the husband has no right in commanding her to serve his parents as he has no right in asking her to stand on one leg for an hour for example. She is not obliged to obey him in whatever he orders her to do!

wh has higher rights from a man,his brothers or his wife? Is it permissible for him to shout on his wife if the wife has some plans and his brother wants to drop his kids at their home but they can’t keep the kids due to their prior commitments? Also the husband sits with his brothers till 2 o clock at night and discuss worldly affairs and gossip which upsets his wife ,still the h

Kind Treatment of Spouses

13 Jul

ANSWER: The wife is not obliged to babysit her husband’s nephews. However, she must handle this situation in a more mature way than fighting with the husband. She should tell him about this when he’s in a good mood and must not nag about this as this would have a negative impact.

Now a days when looking for marriage proposals guys demand girls to be working.that girl should give her share of income as it is her responsibility to make money & back her husband as now everything is expensive. Some guys even look down upon a home maker wife. What is the ruling in islam to demand a wife to work & call a home maker idle person.

Kind Treatment of Spouses

11 Jul

ANSWER: This is not part of Islam. In Islam Allah put the responsibility of providing for the family on men and looking after her husband, kids and the house on women. Any woman who accepts such a materialistic person has only herself to blame.

I’ve needs of emotional and spiritual togetherness from my husband which he doesn’t show an interest to.He claims pure love but he is someone who’ busy earning money,working 10 – 11 and sheep after he’s home.For every alone time we spend which is rare,Ive to beg.Im afraid I’ll lose interest because he says he can’t fix this.Asks me to chnge n comprmse.hw long should it be ONLY me

Kind Treatment of Spouses

03 Jul

ANSWER: Whenever a person is attached to something more than Allah, this thing would be a cause of torment and depression for him in this life. Develop some halal, constructive hobbies or activities so that you’re not dependent on your husband for your happiness. There are so many things that you can do, learn your […]

My age is 29rs and i am.married my question is that i stay away from home for work and i visit after 15 or 20 days and my wife does not like it i am working in my family business and as the business is very old type my wife is not happy with what i am doing she wants me to do something decent as i am qualified master of commerce and currently the work i do is sit at the cas

Kind Treatment of Spouses

02 Jul

ANSWER: If she cannot stay away from you for this long, then either get a house near your work and take her with you or get a new job if you can find. If she is only complaining about the prestige, this is not a legitimate reason and you must not pay any attention to […]

I don’t like to get close with my husband.i hate when he gets close to me.but I don’t want that to happen. I try my best but it happens.but I do full fill his desires though I don’t want.what to do sheikh .please give me some advise

Kind Treatment of Spouses

19 Jun

ANSWER: This is not enough! His rights over you are far greater than this and he is your gateway to paradise. Pleasing him is part of pleasing Allah. If you can’t be happy with him, fake it as if you are happy and pleased with him for the sake of Allah.

My wife compares her right with my parents.If I say no to something or will give when able,she disrespectfully tells me so many hurtful words just like a grownup.I try to explain her politely,but she doesn’t stop.She later says sorry when I stop talking to her.If I complain to her or my parents,they say that she is like a little girl,it will be ok.Kindly advise.

Kind Treatment of Spouses

18 Jun

ANSWER: Why would you complain to your parents about your wife? This will only cause them to hate her in the future despite whether you two kiss and make up! Be a man and conceal your marital affairs from the rest of the world. A wife has her rights and the parents have theirs. They […]

I often find my husband seeing pics of other women like actresses he also sees adult movies now I am facing three big issues he is pushing me to have intercourse the haram way. I have let music long ago but he keeps playing it and also includes our children. He also takes riba from bank. He is a very nice man n he has always fulfilled my rights but it’s such things that are destroying my marriage

Kind Treatment of Spouses

11 Jun

ANSWER: Keep reminding him in the best way to give up watching pornography and also to stop indulging in Riba. Once you have warned him about the dangers of such a deed, your responsibility ends, don’t worry about him agreeing or not agreeing to give it up, as he is responsible for his acts but […]

And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquillity in them;does this apply to both husband and wife or is it only for husband?

Kind Treatment of Spouses

11 Jun

ANSWER: Both.

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