Kind Treatment of Spouses

I am really upset that my co-wife (my other husband wife) likes to read the WhatsApp messages I send to my husband and I’m so upset. Is this even allowed in Islam? My husband doesn’t write me like before and he barely writes I love you, she is controlling and saying to him I cannot quote my husband’s messages with my message. Please help!!

03 Nov

ANSWER: There is nothing here to help you in! You need to communicate with your husband and ask him either to stop her from that or to allow you to read her messages as well! What you tell your husband is private and no one else is allowed to peek in! Your husband needs to […]

my sister has been married for 10 years & has 2 kids. Her Husband has anger management issues and gets angry over small things like kids taking most of my sister’s attention or food not being cooked on time. He beats her if she explains. Slaps, pushes are norm now. Her body as well as soul is bruised. She still wants to be with him. But wants to deal with his anger. What to do?

Kind Treatment of Spouses

28 Oct

ANSWER: She must take medical reports from the hospital proving such domestic violence. With such reports, she must warn him that she will call the police if he ever physically abuses her. She should involve her father and brothers to let him know that there are men protecting her and ready to beat him up […]

My husband earns —– dollars a month and says I need to work too. If I don’t work he doesn’t want me in his life. I need to study to work and he does not provide for me. I have to get money from the social office. What can I do?

Kind Treatment of Spouses

18 Sep

ANSWER: He has no right in asking you to work. Allah has given this responsibility solely to men just as it is your duty to look after the house, your husband and kids. If you don’t have kids from him, he doesn’t seem to be man enough to stay with and you might be better […]

is it considered as fardh for a mother to do any work related to the kids- for example taking them to the doctor appointment. I stay at home n I homeschool my daughter n take care of the house n my toddler. Is it a must for me to outside work for them too? My husband said he cannot take time off for these as he has booked all his vacation for family visit abroad.

Kind Treatment of Spouses

07 Sep

ANSWER: This is not a legitimate reason for not taking the kids. It is his responsibility and he need to man up and do his duties.

I am married and have 2 kidz.the problem i face is my husband is dark and because of it i can’t love him from the depth of my heart eventhough i dont show it out and remain as a good wife.most of the time i feel sad.please guide me

Kind Treatment of Spouses

07 Aug

ANSWER: Color and beauty is just skin deep and what really matters is if he’s a practicing Muslim who provides for you and the kids. You must be grateful to Allah that you’re married, there are plenty of women out there crying to get married and would give anything to be in your shoes and […]

When we say, a wife is not obliged to serve her parents-in-law, they say, it becomes obligatory if the husband commands to do so. Because it is obligatory to obey husband’s command. Is it true? If it is, then every husband will command like this and will make it obligatory upon women.

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Kind Treatment of Spouses

17 Jul

ANSWER: No, the husband has no right in commanding her to serve his parents as he has no right in asking her to stand on one leg for an hour for example. She is not obliged to obey him in whatever he orders her to do!

wh has higher rights from a man,his brothers or his wife? Is it permissible for him to shout on his wife if the wife has some plans and his brother wants to drop his kids at their home but they can’t keep the kids due to their prior commitments? Also the husband sits with his brothers till 2 o clock at night and discuss worldly affairs and gossip which upsets his wife ,still the h

Kind Treatment of Spouses

13 Jul

ANSWER: The wife is not obliged to babysit her husband’s nephews. However, she must handle this situation in a more mature way than fighting with the husband. She should tell him about this when he’s in a good mood and must not nag about this as this would have a negative impact.

Now a days when looking for marriage proposals guys demand girls to be working.that girl should give her share of income as it is her responsibility to make money & back her husband as now everything is expensive. Some guys even look down upon a home maker wife. What is the ruling in islam to demand a wife to work & call a home maker idle person.

Kind Treatment of Spouses

11 Jul

ANSWER: This is not part of Islam. In Islam Allah put the responsibility of providing for the family on men and looking after her husband, kids and the house on women. Any woman who accepts such a materialistic person has only herself to blame.

I’ve needs of emotional and spiritual togetherness from my husband which he doesn’t show an interest to.He claims pure love but he is someone who’ busy earning money,working 10 – 11 and sheep after he’s home.For every alone time we spend which is rare,Ive to beg.Im afraid I’ll lose interest because he says he can’t fix this.Asks me to chnge n comprmse.hw long should it be ONLY me

Kind Treatment of Spouses

03 Jul

ANSWER: Whenever a person is attached to something more than Allah, this thing would be a cause of torment and depression for him in this life. Develop some halal, constructive hobbies or activities so that you’re not dependent on your husband for your happiness. There are so many things that you can do, learn your […]

My age is 29rs and i am.married my question is that i stay away from home for work and i visit after 15 or 20 days and my wife does not like it i am working in my family business and as the business is very old type my wife is not happy with what i am doing she wants me to do something decent as i am qualified master of commerce and currently the work i do is sit at the cas

Kind Treatment of Spouses

02 Jul

ANSWER: If she cannot stay away from you for this long, then either get a house near your work and take her with you or get a new job if you can find. If she is only complaining about the prestige, this is not a legitimate reason and you must not pay any attention to […]

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