Kind Treatment of Spouses

My question is that,if a mother tell you or showing you that she doesnt like you wife without any raison, only because of your sisters doesnt like your wife, what do you need to do? Give your wife taalak?

25 Mar

Are you a man? You must defend your wife and not divorce her just because your mother or sisters don’t like her without any reason. Move out and live with her in a separate accommodation and do not let her see them for sometime.

Few years back only i came to know what is islam.Now I know the basic of Islam my parents not in islamic way.so ithought of marriying a man who increase my knowledge.My husband satisfies my worldy needs.He know the basic of islam but he is not concentrating much in increasing his knowledge.he is more concentrating in worldly life.he is not hearing my words. Plz advice me.

Kind Treatment of Spouses

18 Feb

As long as he is a Muslim and providing to you a good life and doesn’t stand in your way, you must be grateful to Allah and be kind and obedient to him. You must not depend on your husband to learn the deen. Try to learn on your own and maybe you can encourage […]

Sir,suppose I have married (inshallah) ,prayer is obligatory on me and my wife . So can we both make jammaat and pray together while she is in my right corner and secondly doing jammat for witr prayer every time (not only in Ramadan).and thirdly can i offer nafal(tahajjud) in jammat with my wife only in home ,is this OK to pray in jammat with my wife,

Kind Treatment of Spouses

06 Aug

It is permissible to pray night prayers and witr with her but she must stand behind you.

My question is regarding my husband’s nature. I am in his nikkah for the past 3 months Alhamdulillah, but we are not living together yet. We text each other and discuss stuff and I am aware of the fact that he loves me alot but he is not very fond of phone calls, which hurts me alot, not even once in a aday for a couple of minutes on his own. Only if I force him he would call.what should I

Kind Treatment of Spouses

24 Jun

Accept him for who he is.

Husband command to wife that clean the house and bathroom and etc but sometime I missed clean the house and bathroom so husband start get angry so is it valid reason husband angry?? My prayer will not accept mean any voluntary will not benefit??

Kind Treatment of Spouses

24 Jun

No, such angers wouldn’t affect your prayers

first I would like to thank for answering every email. My Q: can I totally refuse working and earning money?We have a 4yo child.my husband forces me to open up private buissness.he earns good money but he believes I must help him in building our life till we are both young.i would prefer to look after home as he works till late and I do not want my child to be left with a nanny.

Kind Treatment of Spouses

22 Jun

It is your right not to work.

Is telling our wives “Honey, you’re perfect” to please them ok? because perfection is only for Allah!

Kind Treatment of Spouses

21 Feb

This is permissible.

I have seen one of your video clip in YouTube, where you mentioned it is a sunnah and great reward for husband and wife to pray 2 rakha prayer every night. Could you please tell us how to pray? Should we intend for nafl prayer? Will it be pray in congregation? Iqama is required, if so who will give? Also enlighten the reward for this practice.

Kind Treatment of Spouses

29 Sep

It should be prayed as 2 rakah of voluntary prayer, in congregation, the husband leading the wife and standing in front of her. It is a normal prayer and iqamah is only don’t for fard prayers.

If parents of the husband oppress his wife, unduly interfere in their marriage and emotionally/psychologically disturb the girl and the husband doesnt do or say anything out of respect or fear of his parents, is that wrong? Will a husband be held accountable if he lets his parents oppress his wife?

Kind Treatment of Spouses

17 Aug

Yes, it is wrong! He should take some sort of action to be fair with his wife such as separating her from them!

My husband scolds me from day to night. Whatever I do is not good for him..either in the home or in the office…I am working in his office. He scolds me loudly in front of people if I disagree with his views. It is so embarrassing as I am also a director of his company. Initially I responded in the same tone but now I remain silent mostly as I have no life in me to fight back for my rights. I am blamed for all the problems…financial issues etc. He never talks politely or kindly to me. My mother in law is also a cause for creating rift btwn us. How do I handle this problem. I have no kids. That is a cause of worry for me but hubby is not bothered. He wants me to work in office only n do house work. He is not bothered to spend a little quality time with me. Pls advise by email

Kind Treatment of Spouses

15 Aug

It is not permissible to work in a mixed environment! You should either work from home or quit this job! Once you are home, you may be able to have some quality time as working with him may cause some dryness in the relationship between you two!

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