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My husband is a wonderful man who prays regularly. But his sleep is deep and sometimes it’s difficult to wake him up for prayers. How much responsibility is it on me to keep trying? Should I keep trying? Please let me know. I really struggle with this.

14 Apr

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You must just wake him up once or twice and if he doesn’t wake up even after that then the sin is on him as you had done your job. 

My husband is a wonderful man who prays regularly. But his sleep is deep and sometimes it’s difficult to wake him up for prayers. How much responsibility is it on me to keep trying? Should I keep trying? Please let me know. I really struggle with this.

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