Fiqh of the family

is making a video film allowed on weddings ,and can a relative cut ties with who do not stop making video films .could you please elaborate on which is big sin making wedding movies or cutting ties and asking close relatives to stop attending those weddings.the ones who are making also are close relatives.plz reply asap.

13 Aug

It is not permissible to make a video with women in it! However, this doesn’t call for cutting the ties as this is their sins and not yours! By this token, you will cut ties with relatives who shave their beards or have money in int set based banks!

A brother married a women who after marriage realized was a bad woman she got pregnant early and he couldnt divorce her, the woman raised her son & daughter badly, they are bad in personality character they pray salah and ibadah is ok but their character is bad like their mother, they have no respect, bad tongue temper what should the brother do to to fix them

Fiqh of the family

11 Aug

He has to work hard on both of them and their mother! Be kind, tolerant, give them quality time and spend time with them everyday. This had all happened because he ran away from these problems instead of facing them and trying to solve them!

I am a bit confused and need some help. Basically I named; Zaynab Bint Faisal Ahmed and this is now on her birth certificate. Now I was told is should have been ‘Ibnah’ and not ‘Bint’. So what is the official way to put it on the birth certificate. Also for a boy would it be ‘Bin’ or ‘Ibn’ Please clarify Usthad, so if I need to change it I will do it straight away

Fiqh of the family

10 Aug

Bint is the right thing.

I have a cousin who was adopted, but I am not sure whether my aunt breastfed him or not. Am I allowed to refer to him as “family?”

Fiqh of the family

09 Aug

No, he is not your Family!

I have only son(8 years old), I want to have another child but my husband strongly opposes to it. Are we in sin ?

Fiqh of the family

09 Aug

Yes! Our Prophet salla allahu alaihi wa sallam ordered us to multiply and reproduce

I am divorcee with a 10 year old daughter. I got a proposal from a pious and practicing man (also a divorcee). He has a 17 year old son. The proposal is good, however, we were only considering, will my daughter and his son be Mahram to each other after our marriage? If not, do you suggest for this marriage to take place, since his son will live with us? Also, if we do get married and I bear children and if they are females, will they be Mahram to his son?

Fiqh of the family

05 Aug

Your daughter is not a Mahram to the boy! If you were to get married, the girl must live with her father or be totally separated from the boy. Your future children are Mahram to both.

I wonder sometimes if I am a Muslim or a kafir.The reason is that I do not and cannot get along with any of my family. I know up holding the ties of kinship is something that Allah and His prophet have enjoined and I do not deny that doing the opposite is haraam, but still there is nothing in my heart that wants to get along with them, neither for the dunya nor for Allah’s sake.

Fiqh of the family

04 Aug

This is not kufr but it is a major sin! You have to train yourself to live with your kinship as you have no other choice! The defect is in you and you must change!

I have an uncle who molested my older sis when she was a young girl and I was also molested at a young age by a cousin. Me and my sister can’t stand them by she doesn’t express it the way I do. When they are over at our place I tend to be cold and ignore them. I know it’s not right to behave such way but they were molesters. We should be nice but i mostly have a hard time being nice to them. I can’t stand them. I even told my father to never invite them if he cares about me and my sister. Was it wrong for me to tell him that?

Fiqh of the family

04 Aug

Yes, it was wrong of you not say such a thing! Contacting your male cousins is prohibited in all cases as they are not your mahram! As for your uncle, this is an allegation that has two parties! islamically speaking, we can’t take your sister’s word for granted and accuse this man without any Proof! […]

My husband prohibits me to use any social media(face book, twitter, what’s app etc) while he uses all of them… is he allowed to do so?

Fiqh of the family

03 Aug

He is allowed to prohibit you from using them! As for him, this depends on how he uses them!

I’m about to give birth to a son InshaAllah. My all time favorite name is Adam, is it okay in islam to name your son after the prophet Adam?

Fiqh of the family

25 Jul

No problem.

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