Yes, it was wrong of you not say such a thing! Contacting your male cousins is prohibited in all cases as they are not your mahram! As for your uncle, this is an allegation that has two parties! islamically speaking, we can’t take your sister’s word for granted and accuse this man without any Proof! If someone accuses you of raping him, would we believe that? Therefore, your father can’t sever his kinship on your sister’s accusation! Besides, this might have had happened years ago and this man might have repented.

I have an uncle who molested my older sis when she was a young girl and I was also molested at a young age by a cousin. Me and my sister can’t stand them by she doesn’t express it the way I do. When they are over at our place I tend to be cold and ignore them. I know it’s not right to behave such way but they were molesters. We should be nice but i mostly have a hard time being nice to them. I can’t stand them. I even told my father to never invite them if he cares about me and my sister. Was it wrong for me to tell him that?

Fiqh of the family | August 4, 2015 2:02 am
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I wonder sometimes if I am a Muslim or a kafir.The reason is that I do not and cannot get along with any of my family. I know up holding the ties of kinship is something that Allah and His prophet have enjoined and I do not deny that doing the opposite is haraam, but still there is nothing in my heart that wants to get along with them, neither for the dunya nor for Allah’s sake.