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My husband and I have been married for 7 years now. We used to live together. After 5 years he got a job transfer, so we started living separatly. I am staying with his family. He usually comes after 8 to 10 months. When he came for the 1st time everything was ok and he went back again. When he came for the 2nd time, from no where I saw some text with a christian woman him having an affair. I asked for divorce but he refused and he said there is nothing going on now. I stayed because of my mother-in-law who at the same time is my grandmother, me and my husband we are related. Now he is back there again and I can see some change in him but am still worried maybe he is still cheating me. Please advise me how to control myself.