Fiqh of the family

My father died due to covid at night of his death he told us to take him to somewhere else otherwise he said that we were killing him but we didn’t act upon his last wish as we thought the hospital which he was in was safe but now his statement is haunting user are feeling guilty what should we do

13 Sep

ANSWER: These feelings are from Satan to depress and sadden you. His death was predestined, like everything else, 50 thousand years before the creation of the heavens and the earth so do not pay any attention to this and make a lot of dua for his forgiveness and maghfirah.

Sheikh I would like to know that can a daughter help her 60+ parents financially? My parents just have 2 daughters both of us married. My father has a business of his own but dosent run the same always .i do not earn myself can I use my husband’s money to help them with a nominal amount monthly? Do I need to take his permission for the same am i s

Fiqh of the family

08 Sep

ANSWER: You can financially help them if they are poor and needy. However, it’s totally prohibited to give them anything from your husband’s wealth without his permission.

I have done heinous sins,I have let down my parents, husband everyone around. Now people say that because of my sins my daughters are suffering from severe abnormalities like kidney diseases and barren. Is it true please help me? Is this only because of my deeds my daughters are suffering?

Fiqh of the family, Sins

08 Sep

ANSWER: This is baseless. No soul shall bear the weight of another’s sins.

Sheik my sis alwys use abusive words and assume many things n fight with me and my mom..though she is depressed patient she is aware of all what she says..she can behave well but she herself think she is patient and all should obey n listen to her..so i stoppdd talking to her n staying in the house..am i sinful for doing such?

Fiqh of the family

06 Sep

ANSWER: She is your sister and you must not sever your kinship. You can keep your distance and not engage in any form of argument and never defend yourself! This type of behavior will make her feel silly when you are not responding to her provocation which will turn the tables over her head and […]

My mother is non muslim American and becomes upset when i do not send gifts and wish her happy holidays on non muslim holidays. Is it permissible to send her gifts to thank Her for being my mother and show i love her throughout the year not on the certain non muslim holidays and how should i explain this to her

Fiqh of the family, Religions

02 Sep

ANSWER: It is not permissible to send her such gifts on such kafir occasions. Send her gifts all year round.

I started to face cover because husband told to cover the face for the sake of Allah and even Alhamdulillah i too like to cover.but my parents always scold me not to cover the face even they scold my husband too and there are scolding and blaming us too.so sheikh in this situation what should i do? Will i earn my parents curse?

Fiqh of the family, Women clothing

31 Aug

ANSWER: Of course not! Continue to cover the face and do not pay any attention to what your parents say (while maintaintaining being respectful towards them), their curses would not affect you. There’s no obedience to anyone at the cost of disobedience to Allah.

I want to ask u to help me out with a soulution as I discovered that my Father goes to Bar(which serves alcohol) with his friends.. Moreover I dont know if he goes there and consumes Alcohol but this thought about him visiting such place itself disturbs and disgusts me resulting in not being very comfortable in speaking with my father, coz i get disgusted with any matter related to Bars/alcohol..

Fiqh of the family

25 Aug

ANSWER: Such feelings of resentment towards his is from satan! Even if he consumes alcohol, he is still your father and your middle gate to paradise. If you are undutiful or disrespectful, you will book your seat in hellfire. Instead of allowing satan to mess with your mind like this, you should try to give […]

My mom is close to 50years and I’m just 27 years old, my mom calls me too frequently reporting my dad to me, even my siblings, she complains a lot about so many things of which are mostly trivial, even when I’m sick or preparing for exams, these complaints get to me so hard that I become sad. I don’t want to be rude to her but she’s not considering my feelings, please sir how can I handle this sir

Fiqh of the family

22 Aug

ANSWER: Always remember the time she had spent with you when she was pregnant with you and after giving birth and how she raised you up and spent sleepless nights for you! This should make you more than happy to listen to her and to comfort her.

The question is a bit harsh,I know.But i really feel like Allah doesn’t care about women.He only created her to please man.We have marriage issues,we have social pressures, we have a time limit on having kids, etc. How is that fair, Men can marry multiple women, but Allah made woman such that she can’t bear the thought of another woman with her man.and then in hell our number would exceed

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Fiqh of the family

21 Aug

ANSWER: There is no harshness in your question! It is only the thing that separates faithful Muslims from people who do not submit their will to Allah and object to His rulings similar to how Satan refused to obey Allah and prostrate to Adam like the rest of the angels and justified it by saying […]

What is the ruling on a girl sleeping with her mother on the same bed?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Fiqh of the family

14 Aug

ANSWER: They should each have their own separate blankets.

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