Fiqh of Marriage

It’s been 2 years of marriage with baby girl. Me & hubby have fight a lot due to difference in understanding level. I think he is always in complex from my family because in status I am higher. He is reserved for his family that I can’t even complain abt his family. Always I think I should divorce him because he says that he will just consider me for the sake of his baby.i don’t know what to do

Fiqh of Marriage

15 Feb

ANSWER: Don’t let such trivial matters ruin your marriage. Now you’re married and this is your life, your husband and kids should be your first priority. Stop comparing your and his family, this might be the reason for the tension between you too. Look at the good things in him and compare him to other […]

Ya shaikh, how a women can hold back herself when Everyone are clicking her pics in their mobile phones, when she is sitting as a bride?

Fiqh of Marriage

14 Feb

ANSWER: She must warn in advance that they must not click pictures. She must not allow anyone to take her photos and if needed, she must not come out in front of such people.

My male friends compel their wives 2 work 4 money cuz its hard 2 live a decent life in west;but they still expect their wives2 do all housework &obey them.I tell them Allah made room 4 for this economicreality by making obedience 2 husband contingent on him maintaining her (4:34)&that Imams Shafii&Hanbali said a wife isn’t even obligated 2 do housework, so the husband should help out.Am I correct?

Fiqh of Marriage

13 Feb

ANSWER:No, this is not correct. The wives are obliged to work in the house and take care of its chores. They are not obliged to work outside it and if they do, they are not obliged to give their husband anything of their income as this is their own. They are not allowed to work […]

Sheikh, is it Sunnah to d the nikah on a Friday?

Fiqh of Marriage

13 Feb

ANSWER: This is not sunnah.

Sheikh I have been married for 23 years and in all these years my husband is a habitual liar and because of his habit and asking loan from every family member they all have cut their ties with him. He take handsome amounts of loan from banks and to pay them off he have sold all my jewelry and even after the death of my mother he sold herjewelry which come in my share.

Fiqh of Marriage

11 Feb

ANSWER: What is your question? He has no right over your jewelry and you should keep it safe from him. You are not responsible for his debts. You are allowed to seek khula from such a man who does not provide for you or your children.

Sheikh does Islam allows me to be calling someone I intended to get married to?

Fiqh of Marriage, Halal/Haram Matters

10 Feb

ANSWER: If you mean to say talking before marriage then it is not permissible as you both are still non mahram to each other.

My parents are looking for a suitable spouse for me; And in the process, they’re asking me to shorten my beard and to grow it back after marriage. They want me to appear as if I’m a moderate Muslim (i.e. watch movies and partake in free mixing) so that my would-be spouse likes me. But I hate to do this as it’s sinful. Please advise how I can convince them.

Fiqh of Marriage

06 Feb

ANSWER: You must not listen to your parents in this regard whatsoever! If you pretend these things then you will end up with a woman who is like that and a non practicing Muslim and you would regret it for the rest of your marriage.

My Muslim (but distanced from faith) husband insists that we and our two kids attend a party which involves men and women drinking alcohol. I wear the hijab and would feel awkward about being in such a crowd. How do I avoid this situation? Refusing him is yet another reason for him to hate and divorce me.

Fiqh of Marriage

04 Feb

ANSWER: Doesn’t matter! Let him divorce you, it’s better to live single than be with a man who has no jealousy and who takes his wife and children to such gatherings! Tell him straight away that you cannot be part of such haram and wouldn’t allow yours kids as well. Talk to his parents and yours if […]

Sheikh is it permissible for a couple to be intimate, if menses stopped but bath not taken?

Fiqh of Marriage

31 Jan

ANSWER: She must take ghusl after her menses is over to be able to have intercourse.

As per the subject, kindly advice if it is a bad deed to live separately from parents after marriage. Even though my father is earning, so many things are going around at home. There is no peace in my mind. Wife wants a different house. She tried to adjust but I believe I will lose her and my child if I continue to stay with my parents. Please advice.

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

23 Jan

ANSWER: It is not a bad deed to live separately after marriage. It is your wife’s right to have a separate accommodation after marriage and you can only give her the due rights.

More..