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You must not be rude but talk with utmost respect but firmly that you cannot marry him and Islam has given this right to you of rejecting someone if you don’t like him. 

My entire family is forcing me to marry someone. I refuse them a lot of time but they are still insisting. Everytime I pray I always ask Allah for guidance but still I can’t force myself into situation that I really don’t like to be. I even told them that in Islam it is a sin to force your child to marry someone. I am starting to be rude at them just to let them understand my side.

Fiqh of Marriage | April 15, 2018 5:22 pm
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Sheikh, I did a terrible mistake by talking hard to my mom. I didn’t understand at the situation but later on I realized that I did something terrible for which my mom cried. It’s something based on the income of my job. I do earn very little approx. 30$ per month by teaching in a school and the case is based on this thing. I feel so guilty for doing this. What to do now?
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Sheikh, I’m newly married to my wife. There is a tradition in my culture, after the wedding, the in-laws expect to see the bed sheet or hear from their children if she was a virgin or not. I told my mother-in-law that I will not answer this question and I don’t believe I’m obligated to share. She said this is not haram and not an innovation. Please advise.