Fiqh of Marriage

QUESTION: My son doesnt pray regularly once or twice a day even though I ask him So he is now 24 yrs old and he is supposed to get married since he has completed his graduation so shall i look for a muslum girl for him or leave him on his own

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family, Prayer

12 Jun

ANSWER: Don’t get involved and make it clear to him that you can’t put your reputation on the line in front of others when he doesn’t pray and is not committed to Islam as people would consider this cheating them. Tell him clearly that if you were asked, you would spill the beans and tell […]

QUESTION: I am 21 years old man studying in university. I fell in love with a girl and started a relationship. It’s been 6 months. I’m ready to marry her as her family accepts me. But since I have done haram relationship with her, should I breakup and repent or should I continue my approach of marrying her?

Character and Morals, Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations

11 Jun

ANSWER: You must stop all communication and contact with her immediately and sincerely repent to Allah while showing deep remorse for this Haram relationship and after that you can approach her father and proceed with the marriage if you think that she would be a good Muslim wife and a good mother for your children. […]

QUESTION: I hve 2 proposals, 1st is in UK, salafi aqeeda, but doesnt pray zuhr & sometime asr bcz office & did smoking in past whch he told us he has quit now (should dis be ignored? I dnt knw if he has other bad habits). 2nd in Jazan, is a relative & comes from deoband fam. How is it to move to west for future gens exposure to lgbt sex educ? Or its bttr 2 marry deobandi & stay in KSA? Pls advise.

Fiqh of Marriage, Sects

10 Jun

ANSWER: It’s not permissible to marry a deobandi. Keep on looking for a righteous practicing Muslim

QUESTION: Does a rightoeus wife do all household work perfectly without any mistakes. Does it mean that if I forget something in the fridge or I didn’t see anything properly once in a while. . I need to be scolded or insulted compared with others for not doing the home work properly.? Is your wife and your daughters perfect in household work.

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

09 Jun

ANSWER: This is not fair nor just! He himself has many flaws and shortcomings and two can play this game!

QUESTION: In my culture when two want to get married, the man MUST pay a ‘maal’. Which is money that he has to pay to the girl’s family in order to marry her. Is this permissible? From our knowledge, this is haram. I want to get married to this man, but my parents say I can’t since he isn’t willing to pay a ‘maal’. Also, what should I do in this situation?

Dowry, Fiqh of Marriage

08 Jun

ANSWER: The question is not clear A man must pay a mahar also known as sadaq which is a dowry he has to give for his bride. He is not obliged to give anything to the girl’s family. They have no right to demand any such thing from him However, if this is a cultural […]

QUESTION: I was cheating my husband by talking and being with other mens , now I’m regretting very badly, also I’ve repented and never do it , my question is do I need to tell this with my husband? Am I sinful if I hide this from him ? Because I was not loyal to him

Character and Morals, Fiqh of Marriage

08 Jun

ANSWER: It’s totally prohibited to tell him or anyone anything about your sins otherwise Allah will not forgive you! Simply repent to Allah sincerely while showing deep remorse and never go near such things that would tempt you to restart such sins

QUESTION: I have a dad who lacks the ability to control his anger and this leads him to get mad sometimes in which leads my mom crying and i am afraid that if i get a wife i could potentially make a poor girl cry, what should i do?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

06 Jun

ANSWER: Be a real man and treat women like a real Muslim!

QUESTION: My husband got second wife 3 years before I accepted but suddenly he changed he lives with her and come to see his kids n all doesn’t give me my rights last two years..I heard tht if husband doesn’t touch his wife for 6 months marriage is invalid?i can’t leave him as I have no where to go but I will never forgive him…

Fiqh of Marriage, Invalid Marriages

06 Jun

ANSWER: What you have heard is not true You both are husband and wife unless he divorces you or you take khula, even if you live separately, without having intimacy for 50 years!

QUESTION: Husband is always on video calls wid mom nd sis’s inlws or WatsAp msgs ol day nd night nd tell dem each nd evry details of d day vich i really hate to share,nd he dosn’t gve any tym to his married life or kids. v r gng out dey r on vid call wid him,eating,toking, sleeping,wakingup,sitting.It really gets annoying 2 or 3 tyms is fyn but evry 1hr??

Fiqh of Marriage

03 Jun

ANSWER: Try to live with it and ignore him when he is on the call with them and occupy yourself with something useful or with the kids. The more you show him your frustration, the more he will ignore you and call them. Ignore him and focus on yourself and kids.

QUESTION: During childbirth I endured a lot of pain and couldn’t continue without a spinal injection. there was no female doctor so a male doctor put the injection on my back with my husband and 2 female nurses present in the room. my husband always insults me and says i am shameless to expose my back to a male. He calls me weak for not being able to endure the pain and gets angry at me. Was i sinful?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

01 Jun

ANSWER: No! Your husband is an ignorant imbecile for saying such things!

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