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This is not normal at all and you should involve her parents in this if she doesn’t listen and behave! She is obliged to work in the house as you are obliged to work and provide for her and the kids. If she is not complying after all of that, you can divorce her and marry someone who would be a good wife to you. 

QUESTION: I work office hrs. My wife stays home. i took care of the kids when i get back and cleans the house. she is lazy and seldom prays she keeps saying she is not a slave, what can i do to avoid quarrel?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses | August 25, 2024 5:12 am
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