Kind Treatment of Spouses

QUESTION: We have no home.we plan to sell gold of my wife & my mom to buy a home along with few money from me and dad.My wife is willingly ready to give her mahr for this purpose.Ive not forced her although ive proposed this idea to her & she is 100% willing as home is better then having gold. Am i wrong to take it if she fully agrees to it?

Dowry, Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

20 Aug

ANSWER: You must either write a document stating how much gold she gave which is a debt upon you to her if you were to divorce or die or you write in the deed that she owns 20% for example of the house so that her rights won’t be wasted.

QUESTION: My father has no feeling of ghairah towards my mother , he always puts my my mother in every outisde work, he did not want to go out for any work, and he has no problem when my mom talks to non mehram men, this behaviour of him annoys and irritates me , what can i do in this case.

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

25 Jun

ANSWER: Advise her to sit at home so that he can man up and take care of his responsibilities. She is not obliged to provide for the household as that is his job. You can be the man of the house, work and earn and make your mom sit home and not work.

QUESTION: Sheikh I heard from some women’s that if a womens husband touches her feet or give her a foot massage even by his own will and nobody forced him or at any circumstances the women will get sin no matter what. Is this true??

Kind Treatment of Spouses, Other

30 Apr

ANSWER: This is baseless and not true and has nothing to do with Islam!

QUESTION: If the husband is an understanding spouse and is okay with the wife not being able to do house chores or occasionally falling short in fulfilling marital obligations due to her disability, such as autism and social anxiety, is the wife considered sinful?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

23 Feb

ANSWER: This is not sinful if the husband is OK with it.

QUESTION: My husband is asking me to help financially, I’m very busy with household chores, teaching my son as we didn’td enroll him in school yet, I have a baby of 2 years old, and we do hifz, all these things take up lot of time, but still my husband is expecting me to take tuitions and help him in houshold expenditure, please advice what should I do and what salad use to do after migration.

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

22 Jan

ANSWER: He has no right, none whatsoever in asking you to contribute in the expenditure of the house! Allah has given the sole responsibility to the man of maintaining the financial aspects!

QUESTION: I have repented sincerely for the sin adultery and my husband said he forgave me and we started living peacefully. But sometimes he keeps on bringing up it while I’m trying to forget that incident. Is he sinful for this?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

08 Jan

ANSWER: Yes, he is sinful.

QUESTION: Me and my wife are due to move into our new house soon. My wife has a money saved and we agreed to use that money for refurbishment before moving in. However, my wifes parents are about to buy a new house and have asked my wife for her savings (as a loan). I told her not to. As we need it. Does she need to listen to me?

Fiqh of Marriage, Halal/Haram Matters, Kind Treatment of Spouses

03 Jan

ANSWER: Absolutely not! Her money is hers only and she is not obliged to give you a penny of it. It is a man’s job to provide for his wife, NOT the other way around.

QUESTION: My husband gives sadqa (charity) from his salary not only for his parents, wife, and children but also for all his sisters’ children. However, this leaves him with insufficient money to run our household. Is this correct according to Islam? Please explain with reference to the Quran and Hadith.

Charity, Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

03 Dec

ANSWER: No, he is accountable for providing for his wife and children as his priority and is sinful for neglecting them He should first fulfill obligations, then give extra charity if he can.

QUESTION: Sheikh, if a husband working abroad sends money to his parents but does not provide financial support to his wife, is he sinful?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family, Kind Treatment of Spouses

01 Dec

ANSWER: Yes.

QUESTION: I love my husband.he is the best man for me alhamdulilah but he has one main problem he doesn’t support me financially as he says he is still studying.Its been 10 yrs and yet he doesn’t support me.my parents want me to work and earn on my own as they cant support me any longer.Can i work in another country and earn without his permission as i dont want to divorce him for not supporting me

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

29 Nov

ANSWER: It is not permissible to work in another country without his permission. Men are the providers for women and not the other way around therefore, you must sit at home so that he would man up and take responsibility for his family. You must not give him a penny and must not contribute in […]

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