Fiqh of the family

QUESTION: Mothers are very important in our life and Allah SWT ask us to respect and obey our mothers right? I want to dress modest by wearing khimar jilbab but anytime I wear my jilbab going out my mom start to saying I dress like old women and I don’t look how other hijabi girls dress. What can I do in this situation?

23 Feb

ANSWER: Don’t be sad, be patient as you’re doing this for Allah’s sake and He will reward you tremendously for obeying Him. Smile when she says such things and never argue or be disrespectful towards her in any situation while holding your ground when it comes to islam.

QUESTION: Well, please tell me if parents are giving trouble, burden, cursing, obscenities, preferring son, Being a girl, spending money is considered a waste and even denying basic rights like clothes, food, education and even disease. Even if the treatment is not done, then will not Allah punish those parents a lot? Please tell me?

Fiqh of the family

22 Feb

ANSWER: They are accountable to Allah for not taking care of their children or being fair with them and will be punished for that.

QUESTION: Sheikh is that haram to keep a friendship who makes us closer to our Deen (surely not with the opposite gender) even if our parents don’t want us to have such friendships because they’re scared if we get brainwashed? If we keep our friendship, will we be disobeying our parents?

Fiqh of the family

20 Feb

ANSWER: If this individual is extreme and not properly following the way of the prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam, you must not befriend him and you must obey your parents. But if he is righteous and practicing has good akhlaq and follows the sunnah with wisdom and according to the understanding of the 3 […]

QUESTION: My parent’s got separated when I was two..My father wasn’t willing to take me with him and he was regretful that i born..He dint see me after that nor I saw him in my life…He dint meet my needs and nor does he send any money for me…I’m i sinful for not doing the rights of a daughter like doing his khidmah.

Fiqh of the family

19 Feb

ANSWER: Yes, you are sinful. It’s obligatory upon you to maintain ties of kinship with him. He will be accountable for his deeds in front of Allah and so will you be if you don’t connect with him and fulfill your duties towards him.

QUESTION: My brother is 19years old. He dont talk with his parents. If they want to talk, he abuse them. My mother sends food to his room. He is alwz in his room locked. He dont go to masjid. Alwz in his room playing in laptop. My mother cries for him. Makes dua. Sometimes he abuse mother without any reason. His anger is always on high. Is there any solutn to this in a islamic way. Becz we wont go to shirk

Fiqh of the family

17 Feb

ANSWER: It is their mistake for allowing him to be disrespectful and still provide him with food and service. Your mother shouldn’t clean or cook for him until he behaves and act like a grownup man. They should cut the internet access on him and not pay his mobile phone till he mans up. https://islamqa.info/en/answers/210875/how-should-the-family-deal-with-a-disobedient-son

QUESTION: I’m a 28yo male (un employed) I stay with my parents. Can my mom do laundry, bedding and cooking for me or should I do on my own? I mean like is it her responsibility or mine. I depend on her cooking and laundry bcoz I don’t know about them & I depend on her for bedding and cleaning my utensils cuz I’m lazy & also i think that it’s her job.

Fiqh of the family

17 Feb

ANSWER: If you are unemployed and not contributing anything in the house then you should help out around the house instead of being a burden on her.

QUESTION: Been married to my husband for 5 years and have 1 small daughter. In laws keep on telling vulgar things about my family. They never can accept my husband having good relation with them. My mother in law is the main person to use my father in law as a weapon to always trigger my husband. Son has stopped contact with them for our peace orelse they just make everything worse. What should I do ?

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of the family

06 Feb

ANSWER: He is sinful for not contacting them. He should go and be dutiful and respectful to them but must not reply to their abuse or defend you or your family. Let them talk as if they are crazy talking to themselves without replying to them.

QUESTION: My husband has committed a sin with another women. I dont feel towards him like I use to. We’ve been married for 7yrs. It’s been over one year that my heart can’t accept him. I have tried but I don’t know what to do.

Fiqh of the family, Kind Treatment of Spouses

29 Jan

ANSWER: If he has sincerely repented to Allah from this sin and apologised to you and if he’s a changed man now then you must give him a fair chance and put those days behind and make your home a safe haven for him to come back to. Allah the almighty forgives sins, don’t you […]

QUESTION: Sheikh my elder brother wears tawiz from his childhood so can i remove it.

Fiqh of the family, Knowledge & Propagation, Shirk and its different forms

28 Jan

ANSWER: You can give him dawah diplomatically, with wisdom, knowledge and fair preaching but you cannot forcefully take it out as its not your right.

QUESTION: When my parents come to visit me and my children my wife misbehaves with them and fights with me afterwards saying that my parents have no right to come in my house. My parents live in their own house normally. I know that my wife has the right to a separate house in Islam but can she refuse to allow my parents to come to my house for a visit also?

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

26 Jan

ANSWER: She has no right to stop them from visiting you in your house as this is your house! She can object to them living there but not to visiting you!

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