Fiqh of the family

Sheikh at which age should kids be segregated in their bed? 7 or 10? Because on islamqa they say 10 but on your site you said 7 and also there are ahadeeth who say different. I always thought it was 7.

Fiqh of the family

26 Aug

ANSWER: It is an issue of dispute. I am inclined to follow the opinion of those saying that it is 7 years. It is alway best to be safe than sorry especially in today’s times and Media.

My friend question :If son has a problem in his private parts…and his age is 20 can he tell and show to his mother? He don’t like to tell others about his problem except his mother?so What Islam says about this ?

Fiqh of the family

26 Aug

ANSWER: Of course not unless she is still changing his diapers till date! He should consult a doctor or tell his father about it.

My husband goes to his brothers house so my husband Can see his kids. His brother know that my husband does not want to sit with his wife in the same room but she stills sit with them and talk to him. Sometimes she sit with them and talk and then come back. Does my husband get Sins because of that.

Fiqh of the family

23 Aug

ANSWER: He must let his brother know very clearly that he won’t come to his house if his wife would come and sit in the same room as they’re are non mahram to each other and it’s prohibited to have mixed gatherings like this.

I’m a convert from Europe married to a Saudi Arabian man. I am pregnant now and we had a big argue about the babies name, does it have to be the fathers name? And his grandfathers name? And then the great grandfather? And is it now allowed to have both last names ? Like the mothers name and the fathers? I would appreciate your help sooo much.. i really don’t know what to do..

Fiqh of the family, Pedagogy education and upbringing

13 Aug

ANSWER: The name must be followed by father’s name and if required grandfather’s name. The Mother’s name is not included in Islam with a person’s name at all. Some say only children born out of wedlock are called after their mothers!

Sir i am very rude specially to my mother.i love her and i know that she has raised us through many difficulties and hardship yet i cant control my anger for her silly behavior.I tried myself to be good with her but i can’t keep that up for long time.i listen to many lectures about this topic yet i can’t mend my behave.what should i do?

Fiqh of the family

08 Aug

ANSWER: Prepare to take your seat in hell! There is no excuse accepted from you except if you are insane and unaccountable. It is funny how your anger is selective and you can only show it to your mother. But if it was to your boss, a police officer or to a man full of […]

We are visiting my sister’s home where my parent’s live also and she has daughters. If my son is never left alone with his female cousins and he doesn’t participate in anything more than basic pleasantries can he sit and eat with everyone on Eid or should he spend Eid alone.

Fiqh of the family

04 Aug

ANSWER: Family gatherings must be segregated. He must sit with the rest of the men in the house.

We r searching rishta for our brother,my brother age is 22 but he is induged in some bad habbits like alcohol smoking should we tell all these thing where we r doing his rishta or not ? My mother says to me i am alnoe come with me for visiting people but i do not feel this fair and justice wth the family we will do rishta (marraige),but if we will tell them no one will marry him.what to do In ths?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

27 Jul

ANSWER: You must not be a part of this process at all and remind your mother in a respectful manner to fear Allah! Ask her how she would feel to have been married with someone who smokes and drinks alcohol that she had no clue of before marriage! Would she want her daughter to marry […]

Serving my parents but I do it not happily and pleased, will I be rewarded for that ?

Fiqh of the family

24 Jul

ANSWER: As long as you don’t show this in words or deeds, you will be rewarded, but the reward is lesser than if you were to do that willingly and happily.

A brother asks, his mother is sometimes alone with her sister’s husband when eating in their house. The brother advised his mother but she is insistent that it’s ok. Is it better for him to leave this evil when it happens or should he stay to prevent that khulwah?

Fiqh of the family, Halal/Haram Matters

23 Jul

ANSWER: He must stay to prevent the khulwah and keep advising her against what she’s doing. Her husband must take necessary action and also her sister should prevent this.

If I earn should I give my earning to my parents? Is it an obligation to a daughter to spend for her parents though they have sufficient income? My mom always threaten ,that she only spent for our studies, so we should give our earnings to her,if not we’ll be sinful. Kindly clarify this issue sheikh. May the Almighty Allah reward you.

Fiqh of the family

23 Jul

ANSWER: It is the responsibility of all the children to look after the parents, both financially and physically, however if the parents are self sufficient, it’s not obligatory for the children to give them money nor they are obliged to pay them back anything they had given them in the past such as food, shelter […]

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