Fiqh of the family

My parents r married but live in two seperate countries. And when I stay with either one of them, I always witness them cheating on each-other. I haven’t caught any of them with zina but I have seen my mum talk with other men and I have also witnessed my dad get a random woman’s phone number. I’m scared to say anything because I know that i will end up getting angry and raise myvoice.What do I do?

Fiqh of the family

14 Feb

ANSWER: The consequences of any interference would be catastrophic! You don’t have any evidence that would stand up in a court of law and you would be slandering without such evidences. Remind them of Allah and what Allah has prepared for those who go against His commands and stay out if it.

Can a boy make dua for his father…if his father divorced Child’s mother ? after child’s mother divorce… can a child become SadqaeJaria for his father ? however his father did not play any role for his child’s Tarbiyah ??… may be bcz of divorce or separation

Fiqh of the family

13 Feb

ANSWER: The father divorced his mother, not the child! Allah mandates upon the child to be dutiful, serve, and honor his father while anticipating his reward from Allah alone. Part of being dutiful is to make dua for his father and visit him often to see if there is anything he can do for him.

My Uncle, who was custodian of a property, and a cousin ate our share of inheritance. If we do not forgive him for eating our share are we sinful? He is also involved with loan sharks, we worry if we are close to him we will be harmed more so we want to keep interaction with him minimum but we are worried if we do that we will be breaking ties of kinship … how to balance.

Fiqh of the family

12 Feb

ANSWER: You are not obliged to forgive your oppressor. You must uphold ties of kinship with him as Allah mandates this upon you. You can do this by calling him over the phone every now and then in order to maintain Salam.

Sheikh I wanted to know if a single Muslim son can move out of his parents house and get his own place even if the parents don’t agree with it

Fiqh of the family

08 Feb

ANSWER: If he is working away from them, this is permissible. To leave their company and move out to a separate accommodation while he is still not married, this is being undutiful unless there is a legitimate reason.

Yesterday my neighbour visited me she said that her daughters proposal and marriage were getting cancelled which is about to fixed..now her daughter is 31 years old. My neighbour is so so sad and since last 4 years she is so sick with this daughter marriage tension.. kindly sir suggest and help in this regard..

Fiqh of the family

21 Jan

ANSWER: This is a test from Allah! This is way better than marrying someone who would divorce her after two months only to find out that she is pregnant and stuck with his child.

A sister wants to know if her sister’s husband is her mahram?

Fiqh of the family, Mahram

14 Jan

ANSWER: No, he’s not a mahram and she must be fully covered in front of him and it’s not permissible to chit-chat or socialize or hang out when he’s around. This ruling is same for both sister’s husband and husband’s brother. https://islamqa.info/en/answers/5538/who-are-the-mahrams-in-front-of-whom-a-woman-can-uncover

Sheik my question is that is it permissible for a son or daughter to touch his/her mother’s feet. As many people believe that paradise lies under the feet of mum. And touching them would shower Allahs blessing on you.what is the ruling on it?

Fiqh of the family

06 Jan

ANSWER: Touching the feet and seeking blessings the way Hindus touch while the parents are standing as if you’re bowing or prostrating to them is not permissible as bowing and prostration is only for Allah.