Fiqh of Marriage

ANSWER: You should look at overall how he is, his religious background, his job, his family and looks. After analyzing all this if you still feel you’re not attracted to him because of his looks then you should not accept.

ANSWER: If they were Christians but were not married at church, they need to renew their marriage. But if they were atheists, there is no need.

ANSWER: It is not compulsory.

ANSWER: Tell him that you want to be a boy but you can’t as this is how Allah had created you! Show him that boys can only be boys and girls can only be girls! Show him that you need a man to protect you and his sister and you depend on him to do […]

ANSWER: Serve your parents in whatever way that may make them happy with you, it does not have to be financially. You must work on your marriage. Women generally don’t pay attention to financial stability as long as they are being praised and shown affection – this would help her to move past it and […]

ANSWER: You should do whatever is prevalent in your culture in this regard providing there is no mixing or any haram activities.

This is not extreme, one should look out for religious and pious women. However, how would you know that she is like this? Will you ask her? This is not permissible at all and it is insulting to ask a woman such questions.

It’s permissible as he’s not her mahram.

If her father and relatives are not Muslim, you can marry her through the Muslim court or the authorized Islamic center.