I am currently 19, turning 20 In Sha’Allah, and have an interest in getting married. However, my parents do not have any intention of getting me married as I am too young and haven’t completed my college degree yet. I am fearful that if I talk to them about this, they will not understand me and tell me that I’m too young. Please advise me. | Sheikh Assim Al Hakeem
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  5. I am currently 19, turning 20 In Sha’Allah, and have an interest in getting married. However, my parents do not have any intention of getting me married as I am too young and haven’t completed my college degree yet. I am fearful that if I talk to them about this, they will not understand me and tell me that I’m too young. Please advise me.

I am currently 19, turning 20 In Sha’Allah, and have an interest in getting married. However, my parents do not have any intention of getting me married as I am too young and haven’t completed my college degree yet. I am fearful that if I talk to them about this, they will not understand me and tell me that I’m too young. Please advise me.

04 Mar

ANSWER:

You may tell your sibling or a friendly aunt who can convey your message to your parents suitably so that they look for a spouse for you.

I am currently 19, turning 20 In Sha’Allah, and have an interest in getting married. However, my parents do not have any intention of getting me married as I am too young and haven’t completed my college degree yet. I am fearful that if I talk to them about this, they will not understand me and tell me that I’m too young. Please advise me.

Fiqh of Marriage | March 4, 2020 8:43 am
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I am divorced,I have a 10 year old son from my previous marriage.My ex has never fulfilled his duties as a father.He chose his career over us.Hes a doctor and hes still not giving child support.I understand it’s my sons right but what if we dont want it n just leave it.would me and my current husband be answerable to Allah swt for that. My current husband loves him alot.

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