Fiqh of the family

QUESTION: Sheikh, I stay home all day bcos I do remote job. During work I ask mom to give me food or water etc. If I was working at office I would need to do it all by myself. My mom is often busy with home chores and get frustrated sometimes to answer me. As man are supposed to go work outside, am I obligated to get food and water etc by myself or is it my mom/wife’s job to do this for me?

20 May

ANSWER: It’s not your mom’s job at all to serve you now!! You should be ashamed of yourself for asking such things from your mother and expect her to serve you after weaning you! You’re a grown up man and act like one and serve your parents in their old age rather than demanding to […]

QUESTION: I cannot stand my sister. I try my best to love her for the sake of Allah but I just can’t. I literally don’t even want to look at her. She is mean to everyone and almost all my siblings had a fight with her just cause of how bad she treats everyone including my mom and she’s only 17. Also, my mom can’t get her to do anything without pleading to her. Am I sinful for not liking her?

Fiqh of the family

15 May

ANSWER: This is a phase in her life that she will hopefully get over it. Treat her with kindness and compassion despite her behavior and without expecting anything in return from her and Allah will guide her heart one day because of this.

QUESTION: My marriage has almost 2 years and I am the only son of my parents. Due to some reasons my mom and my wife both relation are not enough so my wife demand a separate kitchen. For this reason when I discuss with my father he angry and said we are going from this house and submit us to old age house. Kindly please reply what should I have to do now ? Am I sinful ?

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of the family

13 May

ANSWER: Your wife has all the right given by Allah to ask you for a separate accommodation and you MUST give her her right!

QUESTION: I wanted to know if the people who commit sins all their life like doing black magic and going to dargahs, if they die a painful death like cancer and their children are praying for their maghfirat like doing charities n all n praying for em, will their sins be forgiven by Allah since they died of cancer and their children praying for em

Fiqh of the family, Paradise and Hell, Shirk and its different forms

11 May

ANSWER: People who die on kufr or shirk will never be forgiven and it is not permissible for their muslim children to ask Allah for forgiveness.

QUESTION: With due respect, I want to know why I am responsible for my younger sister since I didn’t produce it by doing sex. My parents did sex & made her so why am I liable to care whether she abides by Sharia or not, if she doesn’t earn I have to pay her living costs; why?

Fiqh of the family

08 May

ANSWER: Because Allah made you “a man” and favored you over women and made you guardian and protectors of your women folk. If your father is alive, it is his financial responsibility and not yours! If he is not alive and she has no children, if she dies, you will inherit her. Unfortunately not every […]

QUESTION: Sheikh, I will complete medical school this year and my elder brother is lagging behind by a few years. I’m ready for marriage and so is the person I want to marry. I have expressed my desire to my parents. They refused my request because they want me to wait for my brother and think it’s selfish for me to marry when his education hasn’t been completed. What should I do in this situation?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

30 Apr

ANSWER: They have no right to stop you from marrying if you are financially independent and can take care of your wife and open up a home for her. Your brother’s marriage has nothing to do with you getting married. You can get married even if they are not ok with that.

QUESTION: My father was diabetic and he couldn’t fast for many years during ramadan and at that time he couldn’t give fidya due to finanacial conditions…then in 2019 he died after being half paralyzed due to brain stroke, so should i fast on his behalf or give fidyah for his missed fasts of many years

Fasting and Ramadan, Fiqh of the family

29 Apr

ANSWER: If he did not have the money to feed till he died, you can either pay on his behalf or fast on his behalf.

QUESTION: Is it permissible for my brother to be with us in one house as I am newly married so is he mahram to my wife. Or is it permissible to sit and eat in one table

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

11 Apr

ANSWER: This is totally prohibited as he is non mahram to your wife and a total stranger to her.

QUESTION: If my Mother tells me to download the Drama & i listen to her and download it , will it be a sin For me ?

Fiqh of the family, Sins

09 Apr

ANSWER: Yes, you’re equally sinful as her everytime she watches it.

QUESTION: I am 34 year old woman. My parents keep rejecting all proposals I get coz their expectations are too high. Recently my friend introduced a guy to my family but they rejected him too saying he has sisters and will have to give them share from the property they owe. He is a nice guy and I want to marry him too. My parents don’t have any genuine reason to refuse him nor they have any other proposal.

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

08 Apr

ANSWER: If they had rejected many good proposals before without a legitimate reason, you can have your paternal grandfather to be your guardian and if he is not alive, then your elder brother. You can go to the Muslim judge and he will decide who would be your guardian as your father is not fit […]

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