ANSWER:

If they had rejected many good proposals before without a legitimate reason, you can have your paternal grandfather to be your guardian and if he is not alive, then your elder brother. You can go to the Muslim judge and he will decide who would be your guardian as your father is not fit any more.

QUESTION: I am 34 year old woman. My parents keep rejecting all proposals I get coz their expectations are too high. Recently my friend introduced a guy to my family but they rejected him too saying he has sisters and will have to give them share from the property they owe. He is a nice guy and I want to marry him too. My parents don’t have any genuine reason to refuse him nor they have any other proposal.

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family |