Character and Morals

I would like to know that is if the father or husband eats first before anyone else is Sunnah? Meaning even if nobody is supposed to begin eating after waiting for a while?

27 Jul

ANSWER: This is totally baseless and not from the sunnah at all!

Is it allowed in Islam to have any bad thought about a person or about his intentions under any condition? What’s your advice for those who have bad / negative thoughts upon another individual?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Psychological Problems

06 Jul

ANSWER: As long as you don’t speak about them nor act upon those thoughts, you are not sinful. However, a true muslim always cleanses his heart and purifies it.

I forgive every people even if they don’t ask me forgiveness no matter how bad they are or how much I’m hurt. I never went through any pain like what I went through in recent times but I forgived him – can I make dua to Allah to explain & make him realize on the day of judgement about wht he have done, wht were my feelings, wht I went through, etc? Bcz he doesn’t allow me to speak anything abt tht

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

29 Jun

ANSWER: No need. Part of moving on is to totally forget all that had happened as if it didn’t happen. He will know on the day of judgement how he wronged you and realize that.

Sheikh my question is about greeting salam. Sometime i greet salam to a person and he doesn’t reply back and this happened many times with the same person . So what should i do can i stop giving salam . please reply

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

28 Jun

ANSWER: If he is muslim, say salam and move on whether he answered it or not! Don’t make it personal if you are giving salam for the sake of Allah as there is an angel who is better than him, replying to your salam every time.

I read article and now it’s causing waswas, if my manager does me a “favour” at and I thank him, but the thought of thanking Allah doesn’t appear in my mind would this be classed as shirk or sinful even though my fundamental belief is nothing happens without the decree of Allah, when I received this help/blessing I just forgot but when sat and reflected I alway know nothing happens without decree

Character and Morals, Halal/Haram Matters

25 Jun

ANSWER: No problem in thanking others of what they are capable of helping with. The prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam said: “Whoever does not thank the people, does not thank Allah”.

If we hurt someone and if they curse behind us..and then later if we ask sorry and to forgive.. to them..then still the curse remains in us? How to protect ourselves from such curse..? Kindly Explain..

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

22 Jun

ANSWER: If you had wronged them and seek their forgiveness and repent to Allah while showing deep remorse, Allah will forgive you and their curses won’t have any impact in sha Allah.

Sheikh, recently, I’ve started watching health & fitness videos of Dr. , an American doctor. His videos are truly helpful & informative. Only problem is sometimes, not regularly, still images or 3 to 4 seconds length videos of women pop up. Again, the content of those videos are really helpful. Am I sinful if I keep watching those videos?

Character and Morals, Halal/Haram Matters, Sports, Entertainment and Music

17 Jun

ANSWER: This is one of the steps of satan! In few weeks, looking at such stills or clips where women are there and uncovered would be normal for you! You must lower your gaze from looking at non mahram women or anything haram.

Sir if anyone praise me or praise any of my thing, what should i say so that i cannot get evil eye?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Jinn, Witchcraft, Black Magic and the Evil Eye

14 Jun

ANSWER: You should insist them to say “Allahumma barik” to avoid evil eye.

Sheikh my colleauge always ask me what to do in work. He is working in our company for more than a year now but still confuse what to do and always been scolded by managers. Sometimes i get fed up and don’t advise him as he is not learning and always rely on other peoples help. Should i continue advising him in everyday manner.

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Jobs

13 Jun

ANSWER: Saying good and helping others for the sake of Allah gives an excellent impression of how beautiful Islam is and wins the hearts of people. Do to others what you like to be done unto you.

In India many people steal electricity due to high price. Is that haram? What should I suggest them?

Character and Morals, Halal/Haram Matters

11 Jun

ANSWER: This is absolutely prohibited and Prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam said a person who cheats is not from among us.

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