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Sheikh If a wife is trying her best to obey her husband,always trying to do what he likes, appreciating him but d husband is always shouting and complaining,never over looking a small mistake but she remains patient and continue trying. Will she be sinful because her husband is not satisfied?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

27 Mar

ANSWER: If she’s doing her best yet he’s not satisfied, she’s not sinful. Allah will reward her for her patience and will punish him for his ingratitude.

Is it mandatory for a third person to reply salam? Will he be sinful if he didn’t respond?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

27 Mar

ANSWER: The question is not clear. If someone says salam to a group of people, even if a single person replies, this is sufficient and others won’t be sinful if they didn’t.

I’m not interested in having a baby right now as I’m studying. My husband has agreed to it. I’ve been having OCP for 1 year which is making me sick. Doctor’s advised me to substitute OCP with a condom as. I’ve stopped taking OCP. But I can’t trust condoms as they may rupture anytime; as me & my 2 elders were born accidentally from our parents with ruptured condoms. I’m prevent him for few months?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

27 Mar

ANSWER: This is not permissible for you to delay giving him his rights in bed! Refusing him means that the angels curse you every night till the break of dawn! What life is this for a husband who can’t get his rights because his wife wants to study?

Shaykh. If we are in a state of impurity and time for salah is running out, can we do tayammum instead of ghusl?

Ablution (Wudhu), Prayer, Purity

26 Mar

QUESTION: No, this is not permissible.

Respected sheikh is it true that if a person is punished in the grave his punishment is lessened in the hereafter. Is there any evidence for this in quran and sunnah.

Paradise and Hell, Sins

26 Mar

ANSWER: This is with Allah. No one is admitted into Jannah until they are purified from their sins. They could be punished in their graves until they are purified from their sins or, they could also go to hell temporarily, or Allah could forgive them altogether.

Considering the haraam relationships (basically, Girlfriend and boyfriend relationship) in which there is only chatting on WhatsApp.. I got know from you that this type of relationship is haraam.. Now my question is, does it make sense to keep such haraam relations with the intent of not hurting other’s feelings? Basically to keep such re because if he breaks up… this gonna hurt girl’s feeling ?

Pre-Marital Relations

26 Mar

ANSWER: You have a choice between two things: Break all communications in order to please Allah even if this hurts her feelings. Or Don’t hurt her feelings but end up in hell as a result! The choice is yours.

If my husband is shouting on my mother in law in front of me with words like, “use your brain otherwise don’t irritate me, you are brainless and so our maternal relatives”, as his wife, what should i do? And if i don’t say anything because of the fear that my husband might fight with me, am i wrong? Please help.

Character and Morals, Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

26 Mar

ANSWER: You must not say a word and simply not be in the same place and when he is in a good mood, talk about the major sin of being disrespectful to parents without taking his name, with diplomacy, wisdom and knowledge.