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Is a woman allowed to visit her ex-husband’s (divorced) father to see him when he is sick?

Mahram

17 Feb

Yes, as he is her permanent Mahram.

I live in a country where most of the buildings in the country are high rise, it is impossible for me to take the staircase to climb upto 19th floor. Sometimes when I take the lift, some non mahram also enter the lift. … …Sometimes I will be the only female and 2 to 3 men in the lift. I try my level best to avoid such situations. But some times I cannot. So what should do in such situations? Am I forgiven in such circumstances?

Mahram

17 Feb

You can’t be alone with one man. If two men or more are there, this is permissible. If a man enters when you are alone, leave the lift and wait for an empty one.

It is permissible to treat my Cellulite by going to Massage Therapy, because my husband doesn’t like ,and the only way i can get rid of it is a massage therapy.

Kind Treatment of Spouses

17 Feb

If this is a deformity or an abnormality, it is permissible to treat it as long as this is a medical procedure and not something for fun and enjoyment. You should also be careful not to expose what doesn’t need exposing. And Allah knows best

My sister’s in law husband commits adultery.He and his friends use woman who are housekeepers. She has tried so many ways/went for so many courses for dealing with and to try to help him stop but it doesn’t help. So she decided to ignore the problem

Kind Treatment of Spouses

17 Feb

I am afraid that this is a problem that is difficult to solve with this man as he is used to such filth. It might be beyond repair. Therefore, it is best for her to avoid him sexually as she may catch something from him, if she insists on staying with him or she has […]

My husband constantly hit me,and called me bad things and in front of the kids.We had his brother whom is a Shaikh try and resolve our problems but he always sided with his brother.

Kind Treatment of Spouses

17 Feb

My husband constantly hit me,and called me bad things and in front of the kids.We had his brother whom is a Shaikh try and resolve our problems but he always sided with his brother. So I started to talk with the only person who sided with me(it was a man) things with him got a […]

I’ve been married for 13 years, but my husband hates me so much.I really love him even though he slept with another woman and goes to night clubs. He is doing everything so that I leave him.I can’t do that I love him and the kids as well

Kind Treatment of Spouses

17 Feb

How can you love someone who doesn’t love Allah? How can you love someone who is having an affair and cheating on you ? You should try to bring him back to his senses but if he doesn’t comply, you should leave him.

I am a muslim sister going through a very difficult time. I don’t have father. I am living with my mother and younger sister. My husband never took care of me. I have to struggle for my own living. I got married about 10 months ago. After a month or so my husband completely changed or may be I should say we saw his real face. He was too much into nightlife and girls.

Kind Treatment of Spouses

17 Feb

If you are not doing anything that would scare him or make him run away from you, he is not a good husband and you should leave him while you can with minimal damages. He is not a real man and he is not worthy of taking responsibility.

Is it permissible for my wife to plays with my penis (with her hands or mouth) until I erect while she was in her menses?

Kind Treatment of Spouses

17 Feb

It is permissible for her to play with her hands.

I have problems in my marriage, my wife always swears at me, she never listens to me, I have 3 children. Shall i divorce her? I have been married for 8 years and not once has she cum up to me smiling, sometimes she uncovers her hair

Kind Treatment of Spouses

17 Feb

You have to go for marriage counseling with your wife to fix these problems. If she refuses, try to get someone wise from her family to talk some sense into her. If this does not work, separate from her for a month or so. If she does not repent, divorce her

Is oral sex allowed in Islam?

Kind Treatment of Spouses

17 Feb

This is not recommended as it is touching the place of impurity with the mouth or tongue which pronounces the shahada and recites the Quran

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