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QUESTION: Do i have to offer kafaarah if we didn’t know that we have to give it if we break swear or promise I made same promise to Allah about praying all night on shab e mehraj and barat every time they came so on barat I keep making promise about trying to be perfect Muslim so how many kafaarah should I offer.

Innovations, Oaths

18 May

ANSWER: You must not fulfill this vow because what you had vowed for is an innovation Expiate the vow

QUESTION: My wife’s family practices non-Sunnah rituals like Khatam on the 3rd, 7th, 40th day and yearly for the deceased, and seek help from Hazrats against evil. I avoid these as they aren’t from Quran or Sunnah. They call me Wahabi or extreme. I stay respectful, attend normal visits, and my wife supports me. Am I wrong for avoid their invitations?

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Innovations, Sects, Shirk and its different forms

18 May

ANSWER: No, you’re not wrong! In fact, what you’re doing is what needs to be done. Your wife shouldn’t also go to such gatherings. Calling the dead for protection is shirk.

QUESTION: I told my father if he could buy me a bike but now issue is he would do an interest based loan for bike. Would I be sinful. I told him not to take loan it is not that needed

Fiqh of the family, Riba

17 May

ANSWER: You’re not sinful if he’s the one who takes it on interest. You must not sign any interest loan documents.

QUESTION: My father refuses to work. And he refused for years, since his late 40s, though he had chances to work from home. He is asking me and my brother to work and help him keep the family. My brother who is 24 is at uni and I’m 21 and trying to get a career which will take a while. I feel lots of pressure and like he’s putting his burden on us. I don’t know how to act. Advice?

Fiqh of the family, Jobs

17 May

ANSWER: You are not obliged to take care of him and his family while wasting your life on that! Focus on your studies and your career and once you get married and settled, if you have any extra, you can contribute to take care of him and your mother only by providing them with the […]

QUESTION: When we yawn are we supposed to cover our mouth, if yes then is there any particular sunnah way to do it or anyway will do?

Other, Prayer

16 May

ANSWER: The sunnah is to suppress the yawn or cover your mouth with your hand.

QUESTION: I was forced to get married to my uncle’s son. Who wasn’t pray a single prayer,practing shirk, and doesn’t provide for me and child. Cursing during work and promising but doesn’t keep up his words. Can’t I give khula? My parents keep forcing me to get patch up with him. For the sake of the child. But we separated for almost 2years

Divorce, Khula

16 May

ANSWER: You don’t need anyone’s approval or permission to get khula

QUESTION: I’ve a lot of childhood trauma, so in my marriage I get frustrated at small things. I know this is wrong and I’m seeking counselling for it. I can’t look past my husbands humans errors, eg if he comes home late/forgets to do something. Does this anger at him and refusal to accept his mistakes mean I am not believing and accepting Allah’s Qadr?

Basic Tenets of Faith, Divine Will and Decree

16 May

ANSWER: This can be related to your belief in qadar when you refuse to acknowledge that this was already predestined by Allah and blaming him for something he forgot or making an issue of this or that shows that your iman is weak! You need to love the prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam and […]

QUESTION: Is it permissible to seek advice from my therapist about my mom emotionally abusing, manipulating, backbiting me, and trying to ruin my image in the family? The abuse is so bad I fear there might be sihr on me. I only want advice and help bc I don’t know how to cope. Would sharing this in therapy be considered backbiting?

Backbiting, Medicine and medical treatments, Psychological and Social Problems, Psychological Problems

15 May

ANSWER: No, this is not backbiting as it’s done due to necessity. However, he or she must be a Muslim as you shouldn’t seek advice from non Muslims who don’t know what is halal and what is haram

QUESTION: I listen to songs or nasheeds with musical instruments that glorify Allah and praise the Prophet (ﷺ). They touch my heart, increase my Iman, and calm my mind. My intention is spiritual reflection and peace of mind. In this context, is it still wrong to listen to such music?

Sports, Entertainment and Music

15 May

ANSWER: This is totally prohibited & you’re sinful for this! This is satan messing with your head and making you believe your iman is increasing! It’s Satan’s plan to drag you down his road to hellfire!

QUESTION: Mother asked me to wash dishes when I wanted to sleep a lot, I didn’t obey her and said that I will do it tomorrow, then she offended and washed dishes herself. Am I sinful?

Fiqh of the family

15 May

ANSWER: Yes, this is disobedience.

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