Fiqh of Marriage

Actually i need your advise on how to solve my trauma of losing $7k for wedding payment. Which once in a while triggered me to get angry, talking to myself about unsatisfied issues, curse all the past and even i make du’a to allah to put all the cruel people that already ruin my life into hellfire.Where i already fork out almost $7k for 45% wedding payment. In the end we got broke off because my ex future can’t afford to proceed with another 55% of payment. And my 45% payment can’t be refund an

Fiqh of Marriage, Psychological and Social Problems

23 Apr

ANSWER: I don’t know! You can sit and weep for the rest of your life over this and nothing will change and the money won’t come back and everyone involved are living their lives and enjoying it while you are depressed and sad! Or you can be grateful that the marriage didn’t take place and […]

What is the punishment for performing sorcery on someone for one’s own benefit? I suspect that my mother in law has performed some sort of sorcery on my husband and it is not good for my relation with him What should I do now?

Fiqh of Marriage, Jinn, Witchcraft, Black Magic and the Evil Eye, Shirk and its different forms

23 Apr

ANSWER: Suspecting Someone of practicing such a sin is sinful and prohibited. She is your mother in law and you are not allowed to make such assumptions about her and her son. Not every bad thing that happens in our lives is due to black magic, evil eye, jinn obsession or envy! We tend to […]

If a husband and wife having fights and have various marriage issues which is not easily getting solved and due to which they are living away form each other. Will their living away from each other more than 6 to 7 months break or cancel out their marriage like Divorce?

Fiqh of Marriage, Invalid Marriages

21 Apr

ANSWER: No. They are still married even if they live separately for 100 years. The Marriage is only dissolved with divorce or khula.

When women don’t want their husband to have a second wife or multiple wives, does that mean that there is something wrong with her iman or do they underestimate men to be fair with them even though Allah says to marry 1 wife if he fears that he cannot be fair with multiple wives.

Fiqh of Marriage

20 Apr

ANSWER: This is simply how women are made, there’s nothing wrong with their iman if they don’t want to share their husband!

Sheikh if a woman isnt married and she makes dua to allah that when ever she gets married she should be his only wife until the day she dies, she also has an intention of puting this as a condition in the contract. Is it haram?

Fiqh of Marriage

18 Apr

ANSWER: No problem in this.

Got my nikkah done in 2020. rukhsati is in May But the problem is since my husband and I are setting our apartment my mom has problems with me going with him to the apartment or anywhere. I don’t understand her reasoning neither does my husband. He does get annoyed sometimes but I have to respect her wishes. Please tell me how to convince my mom without upsetting her?

Fiqh of Marriage, Marriage Contract

17 Apr

ANSWER: This is a cultural thing as in some communities, they fear that they may sleep with one another and she would conceive and then he leaves her before the consummation of the marriage and denies the child is his. Try to take one of the children with you so that she would feel safe […]

Sheikh few years ago i read a book by a muslimah online halal love starts after nikah and she has written the book beautifully with duas and other word about a couple problem is my heart and mind is stuck on that man’s character and want to marry someone like him n im praying from that time till now to get someone like him my mum says it’s not possible to get someone like him bt

Fiqh of Marriage

12 Apr

ANSWER: If you keep unrealistic expectations like these, based upon fictional characters, the chances of your marriage look very unlikely. Lower your expectations to realistic levels, based on real life rather than on a writer’s fantasy.

I got a lecturer job in a well reputed organization after chasing this dream for 18 years. My husband stands beside me in this scenario. He allows me to do this job but unfortunately, my father in law is refraining me from doing this job. He is not allowing me. What to do in this case? It is so disturbing for me.

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage, Jobs

08 Apr

ANSWER: If its a segregated working environment and you abide by the proper Islamic hijab then no problem in doing it since you got your husband’s permission. But if you teach men as well or mix with men, this is totally prohibited even if your husband approves it as it is prohibited in Islam! Your […]

My husband went to America for business meeting for 2 weeks.when he came back randomly I was seeing his phone .I saw his chat with a head of prostitutes and to go there.When I asked him he said I was sleepy and talked..but accepted that didn’t do anything bad.and begged for forgiveness.and promised.and from then he stared going there more often.should I believe him or tell my parents about it?

Fiqh of Marriage

31 Mar

ANSWER: You had no right in spying on him like this. If you want to end your marriage, you can talk to your parents or anyone else. However, this is considered slandering and in Islam you should be flogged 80 lashes for failing to bring 4 male muslim witnesses testifying that he was committing adultery.

I liked a girl and approached to her parents. They accepted me and ready to give her daughter in my nikah. I’m a daee and they liked my religious attitude. My parents delaying the marriage because i habe 2 elder sister and they are unmarried. What should i do? Wait or ge5 married before my sisters.

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

28 Mar

ANSWER: No need to wait for them to get married. If you are financially independent, go ahead and get married with or without your parents.

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