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If you keep unrealistic expectations like these, based upon fictional characters, the chances of your marriage look very unlikely.

Lower your expectations to realistic levels, based on real life rather than on a writer’s fantasy.

Sheikh few years ago i read a book by a muslimah online halal love starts after nikah and she has written the book beautifully with duas and other word about a couple problem is my heart and mind is stuck on that man’s character and want to marry someone like him n im praying from that time till now to get someone like him my mum says it’s not possible to get someone like him bt

Fiqh of Marriage | April 12, 2022 2:41 am
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