Fiqh of Marriage

Is it oppression if a man tells/orders his wife to not go outisde of home 365 days a year as he says that quran said that it is better for a woman to be in a house. So, is he doing oppression and sin?

Fiqh of Marriage, Halal/Haram Matters, Kind Treatment of Spouses

20 Jun

ANSWER: Of course this is total oppression! Such a person is mentally sick and she must not stay married to him. Did the prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam ever prevent his wives from leaving their homes like this ignorant imbecile or does he know more than the prophet?

Sheikh if a man tells his wife to keep fit, clean, to lose weight and belly fat as due to this he doesn’t feel attracted to her sexually but still she doesn’t obey to this. There are too many beautiful skinny women out there that tempt him. Should he get a second wife? What is the ruling on such a woman and what advice would you give to both the man and the woman.

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

20 Jun

ANSWER: Such a husband is materialistic and narrow minded! His wife can find tens of flaws and shortcomings in him that many other men are way better than him. Would he feel good when reminded of that? Not every woman can lose body fat as not every man can achieve a 6 pack! This person […]

Ya Sheikh, is it Haram for a woman to get/be angry with her husband?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

16 Jun

ANSWER: This is normal for a wife to get angry with her husband as she is a human being. What she does afterwards defines if she is sinful or not.

During the process of meeting a potential spouse, does the mahram have to be right next to her during our meetings or does she just have to be heard and seen, what is the proper method to conduct the meeting.

Fiqh of Marriage

16 Jun

ANSWER: He has to be present with both of you in the room and hearing what is being said.

Just after marriage I lent my husband a big amount of money which he said he would pay back in 2 years but has paid nearly nothing of it back and it has been almost 3 years now. Sometimes I feel really upset at his quiet way of expecting me to be kind (never mentioned that he would not be able to keep his side of the deal nor that he feels bad about it, just silent). What can I do

Fiqh of Marriage, Loans

15 Jun

ANSWER: If he is unable to pay you back, you must be patient and wait till his conditions are better. But if he is able to pay you back, it is your right to demand your money back from him.

My parents has been divorced and dont live together and dont have contact with him for a period of time as we fear fitnah. I want to marry a woman and her family and my family is pleased except his father. He wants to contact my father to see how he is. I know by this there will be fitnah again and cause problems. I wanted to know. Is her father acting correctly even if pleased by my imaan ?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

14 Jun

ANSWER: It’s his right to see the family he is giving his daughter in. If a man is not in contact with his own father, most likely he won’t honor anything else in life and such a person can’t be a practicing Muslim when he knows that his father is his middle gate to paradise!!

My sister is having her wedding next month InshaAllah and she is willing to not cover her head during the function. The event will be completely segregated and we will put up signs and notices prohibiting photography. I would like to know in case someone manages to snap a picture would we be held accountable for it ? What is your recommendation for such an event ?

Fiqh of Marriage, Halal/Haram Matters

13 Jun

ANSWER: You must not allow them to carry the phones in the hall. There are security ladies that have metal detectors and prevent anyone from bringing their phones with them.

Sheikh i’ve been adopted by my aunt and she brought me up kindly,but now she is saying things which hurt me and not good for my mental health as I’m 22 now,i even treat her as i treat my real mother,are her rights equal to my real mother?and should i talk to her to the point so i can avoid her hurting conversation?

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives, Fiqh of Marriage

08 Jun

ANSWER: She does not have the same rights as your own mother but you should respect her after all she had done for you. You can move out if you want and live with your parents or with your real siblings if you want.

I pray salah but I’m not sure if my wife prays that I know that i am getting married to. If I Pray and she doesn’t is the marriage valid, after marriage I intend to make her pray.

Fiqh of Marriage, Invalid Marriages, Prayer

03 Jun

ANSWER: If she doesn’t pray at all, she is not Muslima and the marriage contract is void.

We need to take my sisters wedding just the day after the hajj festival. But we have our family members telling us not to take because a wedding should be taken only after the hajj kutbah is over. Is there a ruling like this??

Fiqh of Marriage, Halal/Haram Matters, Innovations

03 Jun

ANSWER: There is no such ruling in Islam. As long as they are not in the state of Ihram and performing hajj or umrah, they can get married any time of the day or night.

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