Fiqh of Marriage

I’m a man, do my parents have the right to regulate who my future wife is? If I marry my own choice, and they don’t approve, do I lose the reward of Birrul Walidain?

28 Sep

ANSWER: A man does not need anyone’s permission to get married except the permission of the girls father (wali). However, it’s best if you try and convince your parents before getting married.

I would like to ask if is it okay to freeze my eggs and do in vitro fertilizatiom since I habe no husband and I want to have kids of my own. Currently, I am unable to marry because my parents require big dowry from the man, which I fervently oppose to, but I can’t voice it out strongly. Is it okay as a last resort? Thank you.

Fiqh of Marriage

22 Sep

ANSWER: This is absolutely prohibited. IVF is only permissible when the eggs and the womb are of the wife and the sperm is of her husband and its not permissible to get pregnant when you’re not married!! If you are parents are delaying your marriage for such a reason, you can go to the muslim […]

Is it compulsory the waleema and it’s full expense has to taken by the groom and his family or is it permissible for the bride’s family to share the waleema expense,if it is permissible kindly please mention any hadith to support the answer

Fiqh of Marriage

18 Sep

ANSWER: It is the groom’s responsibility to conduct the waleema. However, if the bride’s side wants to invite their guests and they want to contribute in the expenses then there’s no problem in it.

My cousin has a family.About four years ago she started to chat with a man.After some days they started chatting continuously. My sister didn’t know that the guy had feelings for her. After knowing that she wanted to stop chatting. But the guy gave her a thread to commit suicide and he tried once.He knows her husband’s home&phone number.How can she be save

Fiqh of Marriage, Sins

15 Sep

ANSWER: She is sinful for betraying her husband and talking to non-mahram men behind her husband’s back! She must break off all communication with him by blocking his number and repent to Allah while showing deep remorse and sincerity for having anything to do with him in the first place while making a lot of […]

A Muslim man is having a happy married life and a loving family. However,he wants to have a second wife because he believes he can do justice to both of them as per Islamic norms.But his first wife doesn’t agree to his request. So, can he get married again keeping the second marriage secret from the first wife. The second wife and her family will be aware of his first marriage and family.

Fiqh of Marriage

07 Sep

ANSWER: This is permissible, however it’s not recommended as the man would have to lie to his first wife about his whereabouts when he’s at his second wife’s house and it’s a major sin to lie. And the problems would escalate when he has children with his second wife and more so if he dies […]

Some say that intercource after 3 months completion of pregnancy is not permissble. Is that true ?

Fiqh of Marriage

04 Sep

ANSWER: This is baseless.

I’m married for 7 yrs and live with my mother in law who is worst with me, always try to ruin my marriage. Me and husband fight bcz of her, he had hit me many times. He made me a servant and my kids obedient by hitting. I still behave well but now I want a separate house he refused, said I will not leave my mother and want me to live close to sis in law whr thr is joimt family system. Wht shd I do

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage

23 Aug

ANSWER: It is your right in islam to ask for a separate accommodation. It is not allowed for him to hit you like this as this is domestic violence and most countries incriminate such an action. Consult your parents and elders and then you can come with a decision. https://www.assimalhakeem.net/my-motherinlaw-is-bing-vry-aggressive-and-vile-towards-me-im-not-allowd-to-sit-with-the-family-eat-with-the-family-n-also-cook-for-my-husband-or-myself-she-says-i-cant-eat-the-food-she-makes-whe/

There is a brother who has asked for my hand in marriage. I am considering to ask him to memorize a surah as part of my mahr or as a condition of marriage. He agreed. Am I allowed to do this? And if so do you have any suggestion of any surah. I’ve read Surah An-Noor, An-Nisa and Al-Maidah are surahs that were adviced to learn by the salaf in different occasions.

Dowry, Fiqh of Marriage

13 Aug

ANSWER: Mahr should be paid in money, gold or land, plot or anything material so that if you were to opt for khulu in the future, you can compensate him by returning to him what he had given.

My mom is forcing me to get married to someone I don’t like. She’s worried that I wont get a boy in future and just because of that, it’s illogical to get married to any guy that comes across. I’m 25.But I dont like the guy she’s been showing me. How to make her understand that it’s Allahs will, when he wants I’ll get married. But forcing me into this is not the solution,when I dont like it.She tells me that i dont love her, respect her because of all this.

Fiqh of Marriage

13 Aug

ANSWER: Nobody can force you to marry against your wish. However, you must not keep rejecting good proposals of practicing brothers with correct aqeedah because you are not getting younger and I have many cases of women rejecting good proposals and waited for their prince charming and their age slipped and now they’re crying and […]

If a man is barren is it permissible for his wife to leave him because i saw a local moulvi saying that marriage with a barren man is not halal like that nikkah is not valid. Also i know that it is Allah who gives children.

Fiqh of Marriage, Invalid Marriages

30 Jul

ANSWER: What this so called maulvi has said is absolutely baseless and wrong. He is an ignorant and must not be listened to or learnt from. The nikah is totally valid. The choice is for the woman to make if she wants to live with this husband or not. If she wants divorce because of […]

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