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This is a cultural thing as in some communities, they fear that they may sleep with one another and she would conceive and then he leaves her before the consummation of the marriage and denies the child is his.

Try to take one of the children with you so that she would feel safe you are not alone with him.

Got my nikkah done in 2020. rukhsati is in May But the problem is since my husband and I are setting our apartment my mom has problems with me going with him to the apartment or anywhere. I don’t understand her reasoning neither does my husband. He does get annoyed sometimes but I have to respect her wishes. Please tell me how to convince my mom without upsetting her?

Fiqh of Marriage, Marriage Contract | April 17, 2022 8:04 am
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Sheikh few years ago i read a book by a muslimah online halal love starts after nikah and she has written the book beautifully with duas and other word about a couple problem is my heart and mind is stuck on that man’s character and want to marry someone like him n im praying from that time till now to get someone like him my mum says it’s not possible to get someone like him bt
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Sheikh if a woman isnt married and she makes dua to allah that when ever she gets married she should be his only wife until the day she dies, she also has an intention of puting this as a condition in the contract. Is it haram?