Fiqh of Marriage

QUESTION: I was cheating my husband by talking and being with other mens , now I’m regretting very badly, also I’ve repented and never do it , my question is do I need to tell this with my husband? Am I sinful if I hide this from him ? Because I was not loyal to him

Character and Morals, Fiqh of Marriage

08 Jun

ANSWER: It’s totally prohibited to tell him or anyone anything about your sins otherwise Allah will not forgive you! Simply repent to Allah sincerely while showing deep remorse and never go near such things that would tempt you to restart such sins

QUESTION: I have a dad who lacks the ability to control his anger and this leads him to get mad sometimes in which leads my mom crying and i am afraid that if i get a wife i could potentially make a poor girl cry, what should i do?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

06 Jun

ANSWER: Be a real man and treat women like a real Muslim!

QUESTION: My husband got second wife 3 years before I accepted but suddenly he changed he lives with her and come to see his kids n all doesn’t give me my rights last two years..I heard tht if husband doesn’t touch his wife for 6 months marriage is invalid?i can’t leave him as I have no where to go but I will never forgive him…

Fiqh of Marriage, Invalid Marriages

06 Jun

ANSWER: What you have heard is not true You both are husband and wife unless he divorces you or you take khula, even if you live separately, without having intimacy for 50 years!

QUESTION: Husband is always on video calls wid mom nd sis’s inlws or WatsAp msgs ol day nd night nd tell dem each nd evry details of d day vich i really hate to share,nd he dosn’t gve any tym to his married life or kids. v r gng out dey r on vid call wid him,eating,toking, sleeping,wakingup,sitting.It really gets annoying 2 or 3 tyms is fyn but evry 1hr??

Fiqh of Marriage

03 Jun

ANSWER: Try to live with it and ignore him when he is on the call with them and occupy yourself with something useful or with the kids. The more you show him your frustration, the more he will ignore you and call them. Ignore him and focus on yourself and kids.

QUESTION: During childbirth I endured a lot of pain and couldn’t continue without a spinal injection. there was no female doctor so a male doctor put the injection on my back with my husband and 2 female nurses present in the room. my husband always insults me and says i am shameless to expose my back to a male. He calls me weak for not being able to endure the pain and gets angry at me. Was i sinful?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

01 Jun

ANSWER: No! Your husband is an ignorant imbecile for saying such things!

QUESTION: If you have given anything to your wife then it is important for husband to give the same to his sister..anything What are the rights of sister on brother… and they have equal rights as his wife?

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

29 May

ANSWER: This is totally baseless and not found in Islam

QUESTION: I did arrange marriage. My wife’s parents were very clear about her dark complexion and average looks. I and my parents assured them we had no issue. She is very pious, good character goes above and beyond to keep me happy.also she was clear she didn’t want to go ahead if I was interested in polygamy. She is a nice girl. Now I don’t feel attracted for her looks. Should i divorce her ?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

27 May

ANSWER: A real man doesn’t act like this! You went into the marriage knowing what you were doing and choosing despite all the warnings you were given as if they had a bad feeling about you! No one forced you to marry her. Now, if you want to destroy her life by divorcing her, this […]

QUESTION: I am getting married soon and my parents want to gift some gold ornaments to me for my wedding. They have done this as per their own will and I didn’t force them to get me anything. But my fiance doesn’t want me to take anything from them. Can I still go ahead and accept this gift from my parents or do I listen to my fiance?

Engagement, Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

25 May

ANSWER: You are not allowed to speak to him as he is a non mahram to you still as the marriage contact is not finalized. He has no right as a fiancé or a husband even to prevent you from accepting gifts from your parents. This raises red flags about how he thinks or how […]

QUESTION: I am 21 years old and I’m looking for early marriage. However I’m still a university student, do you still recommend early marriage for this case and if yes. How can I convince my parents to get me married at a young age, knowing that I don’t work yet.

Fiqh of Marriage

25 May

ANSWER: If you are financially independent, you don’t need your parents’ permission . But if you are not, then you need to convince them if they are well off that this is important for you as there is so much fitnah outside and you don’t know if you would be able to hold on.

QUESTION: Im not interacting with any female because i want to be pure and untouched for her (my future wife), if she has had some past experiences with a male and I get to know it after my death is there anyway I can divorce her on the day of judgement or in heaven (if I am allowed in heaven). And if i want to see her suffer in the afterlife how do I?

Fiqh of Marriage, Other, Paradise and Hell

22 May

ANSWER: No, you can’t! This is childish of you to think like this as Allah forgives people’s mistakes as if they had done none and on the day of judgement, all grudges and enmity will be erased and removed from people’s hearts.

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