Kind Treatment of Spouses

QUESTION: I am female from India and I run my own business ,can I lent some money to my parents or sisters without my husbands concerns.And what if my husband always ask for my money and fights about it.What is the Islamic ruling for ur sheikh .

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

05 Mar

ANSWER: It’s your own money and you can do whatever you want with it and your husband has no right in it nor are you required to ask him before using your own money on anything. Keep your finances separate from him and he must not know how much you earn or save. You are […]

QUESTION: My husband spends on his relatives, I do not have a problem with that , I respect his choices and appreciate his helpful nature , but when I ask for a small trip / travel together he always answers by saying that he doesn’t have any money to do so . I have started feeling bad about this and I no longer have affection for him .What do you recommend in this scenario ?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

01 Mar

ANSWER: He is not obliged to take you on vacations and obey you in this regard. He is the man and he has to prioritize helping his needy relatives or taking you on a small trip. It is sad when materialistic things become our driving force that make us sad or happy. You are making […]

QUESTION: My wife disobeyed me. I have asked her to go get some stuff from the grocery store and make me something I wanted. And she said, “You go do the groceries, and I will make you it.” Is her not wanting to go the grocery store a disobedience?

Kind Treatment of Spouses

14 Feb

ANSWER: Of course not! A real man doesn’t ask his wife to go out to buy things!

QUESTION: Is the opinion it isn’t fardh for a wife to do household chores but rather it is kindness from her part if she does valid?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

10 Feb

ANSWER: No.

QUESTION: At first I wasn’t ready to get married to my husband as I didn’t like him. Bt my parents wer aftr me I said no bt my dad warned tat if I domt marry him he will never talk so I said yes. At first I felt his nice n decent n he is nice I wont deny that but since a few days I’ve noticed he is very lazy does no work n little disrespectful n cuz of that I feel no love for hi

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

09 Feb

ANSWER: Since you had agreed to marry him, you must make it work. There may be many shortcomings and character traits about you that he might find off putting! No one is perfect in this world, you must look at the good qualities that he possess and overlook his negative points exactly like how you […]

QUESTION: Shaikh , is it a sin if I force my husband to tell me his phone password? As for me he knows my password and everything related to me but when I ask him , he says there are soo many secrets, should i let it go , because it hurts me alot when he says he have loyalty issues with me , i trust Allah fully, but what should I do ? Please advice me.

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

05 Feb

ANSWER: You have no right in asking for his passwords nor does he have any right in knowing your’s!

QUESTION: What is the ruling on a woman who just married but refused her husband to have an intimate moment during their first night as husband and wife because the wife doesn’t want to get pregnant yet? Is the marriage nulled or void? What is the right of the husband on this matter?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

01 Feb

ANSWER: The marriage is valid! The wife is cursed by the angels all night long till the break of dawn and this is every single night! Why did she marry him in the first place?

QUESTION: My husband has committed a sin with another women. I dont feel towards him like I use to. We’ve been married for 7yrs. It’s been over one year that my heart can’t accept him. I have tried but I don’t know what to do.

Fiqh of the family, Kind Treatment of Spouses

29 Jan

ANSWER: If he has sincerely repented to Allah from this sin and apologised to you and if he’s a changed man now then you must give him a fair chance and put those days behind and make your home a safe haven for him to come back to. Allah the almighty forgives sins, don’t you […]

QUESTION: Sheikh, is this authentic hadith that: All the doors of Jannah are opened for women if they follow 4 things. 1)Salah 2)Fasting 3)Doing parda 4)Obeying her husband. Is this authentic?

Kind Treatment of Spouses, Paradise and Hell

16 Jan

ANSWER: The following is the authentic hadith: “If a woman does her five (daily prayers), fasts her month (Ramadan), guards her chastity and obeys her husband, it will be said to her: Enter whichever of the gates of Paradise you want.”

QUESTION: My husband says I am obligated to serve his parents if he says so, because it’s my obligation to obey him. Is it true? Do I have to serve his parents and his other relatives? Please let me know in detail.

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

31 Dec

ANSWER: What he’s saying is not true! You are obliged to obey him and to serve him and not serve other people! This is not slavery!

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