Fiqh of the family

QUESTION: How to deal with a father who is stingy and gets angry all the time at anything even if you speak respectfully? He always pretends he doesn’t earn and so my divorced mother has to work to pay rent and living expenses. He brings one meal every 3 days and spends around 400-500 $ on both me and my sister per month but the cost of living as you know is very expensive. He shouts and says im ungrateful

09 Mar

ANSWER: If he is unable to afford it, he is not obliged to kill himself! If he is lying, Allah will hold him accountable for his actions. You on the other hand must be respectful and dutiful to him or you will reserve your seat in hell as disrespecting him is one of the major […]

QUESTION: Sheikh, what percentage of my salary should be given to my family, to the orphan & to keep for myself? Kindly explain the islamic view.

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

05 Mar

ANSWER: There is nothing specified as such. It’s your own money and you’re obliged to give at least the basics to your wife and children and as for parents you are only obliged to give them if they don’t have any money of their own.

QUESTION: Our dad passed away few years ago. Im only son and eldest sibling. 1 sister married, 1 unmarried. They dont do hijab from non mehrams and Free mix. Sisters husband doesnt say anything to his wife (my sis). I tell both to wear hijab, especially unmarried sis. They still dont listen and do what they please. Will our deceased dad and myself be held accountable for them not doing hijab?

Fiqh of the family, Women clothing

02 Mar

ANSWER: If your father didn’t order them when he was alive, he will be accountable. You are responsible to order your unmarried sister to abide by the Islamic laws but the problem is that in today’s times, you don’t have any authority over her especially in kafir countries. You should try your best to instead […]

QUESTION: I live with my parents and my elder brother. My brother is 26 and i am 21 . He is going to get married next year so he wants me to leave the house by getting married as soon as possible. So that his wife and my parents can live together. I am kind of thorn for him in his married life . We are looking for matches for me but just waiting for the right match .

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

27 Feb

ANSWER: He has no right in asking you to leave the house. He is the one who is supposed to leave the house and provide for his wife a separate accommodation.

QUESTION: Mothers are very important in our life and Allah SWT ask us to respect and obey our mothers right? I want to dress modest by wearing khimar jilbab but anytime I wear my jilbab going out my mom start to saying I dress like old women and I don’t look how other hijabi girls dress. What can I do in this situation?

Fiqh of the family, Women clothing

23 Feb

ANSWER: Don’t be sad, be patient as you’re doing this for Allah’s sake and He will reward you tremendously for obeying Him. Smile when she says such things and never argue or be disrespectful towards her in any situation while holding your ground when it comes to islam.

QUESTION: Well, please tell me if parents are giving trouble, burden, cursing, obscenities, preferring son, Being a girl, spending money is considered a waste and even denying basic rights like clothes, food, education and even disease. Even if the treatment is not done, then will not Allah punish those parents a lot? Please tell me?

Fiqh of the family

22 Feb

ANSWER: They are accountable to Allah for not taking care of their children or being fair with them and will be punished for that.

QUESTION: Sheikh is that haram to keep a friendship who makes us closer to our Deen (surely not with the opposite gender) even if our parents don’t want us to have such friendships because they’re scared if we get brainwashed? If we keep our friendship, will we be disobeying our parents?

Fiqh of the family

20 Feb

ANSWER: If this individual is extreme and not properly following the way of the prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam, you must not befriend him and you must obey your parents. But if he is righteous and practicing has good akhlaq and follows the sunnah with wisdom and according to the understanding of the 3 […]

QUESTION: My parent’s got separated when I was two..My father wasn’t willing to take me with him and he was regretful that i born..He dint see me after that nor I saw him in my life…He dint meet my needs and nor does he send any money for me…I’m i sinful for not doing the rights of a daughter like doing his khidmah.

Fiqh of the family

19 Feb

ANSWER: Yes, you are sinful. It’s obligatory upon you to maintain ties of kinship with him. He will be accountable for his deeds in front of Allah and so will you be if you don’t connect with him and fulfill your duties towards him.

QUESTION: My brother is 19years old. He dont talk with his parents. If they want to talk, he abuse them. My mother sends food to his room. He is alwz in his room locked. He dont go to masjid. Alwz in his room playing in laptop. My mother cries for him. Makes dua. Sometimes he abuse mother without any reason. His anger is always on high. Is there any solutn to this in a islamic way. Becz we wont go to shirk

Fiqh of the family

17 Feb

ANSWER: It is their mistake for allowing him to be disrespectful and still provide him with food and service. Your mother shouldn’t clean or cook for him until he behaves and act like a grownup man. They should cut the internet access on him and not pay his mobile phone till he mans up. https://islamqa.info/en/answers/210875/how-should-the-family-deal-with-a-disobedient-son

QUESTION: I’m a 28yo male (un employed) I stay with my parents. Can my mom do laundry, bedding and cooking for me or should I do on my own? I mean like is it her responsibility or mine. I depend on her cooking and laundry bcoz I don’t know about them & I depend on her for bedding and cleaning my utensils cuz I’m lazy & also i think that it’s her job.

Fiqh of the family

17 Feb

ANSWER: If you are unemployed and not contributing anything in the house then you should help out around the house instead of being a burden on her.

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