Fiqh of Marriage

Just wanted to know if this scenario is unislamic and unacceptable or ok in Islam.. Having a nikkah ceremony so that the couple can communicate in a halal way as the boy and girl live in separate countries at the moment…..and then having a gap of a few months bringing the couple together and then followed by Waleema. Is it acceptable?

Fiqh of Marriage

03 Apr

This is permissible.

Im married & pregnant with a man who takes seen mighty, having free mixing family meetup. Attending relatives birthday parties and speaking to non mahram relatives.im worried about my unborn babies upbringing if I stay with him. He seemed to be religious b4 nikah but now I’ve the real him.when I advice him he gets Moody/angry.should I leave him or stay? Its lowering my emaan too

Fiqh of Marriage

03 Apr

You seem to be very sensitive and fragile. You want to divorce your husband while you’re pregnant just because you are unable to cope with what he’s doing? This means that whenever you faced with A problem, you will always resort to running away from that problem. This will never solve your problems and you […]

I have an urgent question – Can the father of the suitor also see the proposed girl when the suitor goes to see her? What is the ruling on the suitor’s father looking at the proposed girl because his son intends on marrying her? If the father requests to see her, what should the girl do? Isn’t the permission to look at her, only for the one who proposes her?

Fiqh of Marriage

01 Apr

He is not the one getting married and she is not a car in a show room for everyone to see and examine!

To maintain silathur Raham ( with parents and siblings) do a woman need her Husband’s permission.Allah ( swt ) says to maintain but husband says no. What to do.Will it become sin on her.

Fiqh of Marriage

27 Mar

No, she doesn’t need her husband’s permission but she can’t visit them nor allow them to enter his house without his permission. She can call them or whenever she sees them, she can talk and connect with them.

Is it permissible for a female to desire a husband of specific qualities or wish for him to look like so and so good looking man?

Fiqh of Marriage

27 Mar

No problem as long as she is realistic and wishes for good and pious husband.

Please advise a 21yr sister who is having gradual feelings/attraction (she does not know his appearance) towards her Hifdh ustadh because of Allah’s blessings on Him & good qualitys of his knowledge,Deen/Virtue & manners. Should she stop taking classes? She believes he will make a good spouse. How should she initiate the contact between her wali and him. Is this indecency/wis was to obstruct hifz?

Fiqh of Marriage

24 Mar

She should tell her father about her interest in getting married with him and have her father contact him. She must have no contact with him whatsoever and stop the classes immediately as it was haram from the beginning to start such classes.

My husband always insist me to do oral sex but I refuse to do so because i frequently used to say names of Allah I don’t want to do such kind of act with the same mouth. Is this account as a sin? or how can I handle this situation?

Fiqh of Marriage

22 Mar

This is not recommended as it is touching the place of impurity with the mouth or tongue which pronounces the shahada and recites the Quran

1- What must be minimum/maximum amount of Mehar in present era ?? 2- Is it permissible to designate some amount of gold as meher (for example bangles worth 35 grams??) 3- What factors must be keep in mind while setting a meher?

Fiqh of Marriage

22 Mar

There is no minimum or maximum in setting dowry for the bride. Except that it must be within the limits of the husband and the girl is agreed upon it. The Sunnah is not to give a high dowry. It is an issue of agreement between the parties. The father demands an amount and the […]

I am getting married this summer InshaAllah and I wanted to ask what the stance is on contraception. I have heard conflicting advice on whether it is permissible and the circumstances around this. My intention with contraception at the start of my marriage would be to learn my husband before children get involved and to stop using it swiftly after a few months. Is this ok?

Fiqh of Marriage

21 Mar

Kindly refer to the following link(s): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gz3ION7ga6Q

Loads of marriage propsal are coming for me since i have stopped listening to music or enter in a majlis where people dance and sing like mehndi extra in short trying to be a better muslim trying to be obedient slave .So i needed little adive how to talk to guy be staright forward about taqwa or not please do reply.

Fiqh of Marriage

19 Mar

When selecting a suitable suitor, you must look at his character and attributes before considering him. This is usually done by your guardian who asks about him and about his religious practice.

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