Fiqh of Marriage

If you get a good proposal and your father reuses it, go to the Muslim court and let them get you married or to the authorized Islamic center.

Innovation

It is not permissible for a girl to be seen except by her potential suitor once he is serious and proposing.

You are not sinning unless you have the urge for sex. If you don’t have such a need or urge, you are going against the Sunnah and losing reward.

Anal sex is one of the major sins in Islam and Allah has cursed those who do it! If he forces her to do this, she must refuse and resist and if needed, take him to court if she can prove it. Kindly refer to the following link(s): https://www.assimalhakeem.net/is-oral-sex-allowed-in-islam/

A woman can stipulate such conditions in the marriage contract.

You must try to be patient and be obedient to him, unless his orders go against Islam. You can win his heart through this way, while by opposing him all the time and arguing with him, you will make him hate you as he would feel that he is not married to a woman but […]

This is not permissible and it is prohibited for him to marry under these circumstances.

If these photos are of her, forget about her and apologize to her Wali that you can’t marry such a person as there are differences between you two.

He can do so if her wali agrees, however, I don’t advise to go against the opinion of the parents, as this causes problems in the future.