Fiqh of Marriage

The sunnah is to fast, for the one who can not afford to marry.

If he allows you, this is sufficient.

The rule for  the walimah is, generally, that it must be organized and paid for by the husband, however it is permissible for the couple to organize it together if this is what they agree upon. Any other spending should be as per the agreement of the parties involved.

Don’t make an issue of it! Simply tell him that you trust him and that you know he fears Allah but you fear for his safety on the day of judgement to be associated with such a person as Allah told us that such friends would turn into foes except the righteous.

He must have reached the age of puberty.

This is not permissible and it is playing with Allah’s law.

It is your money and you can use it as you please. Your husband has no right over it. Indeed your parents are more deserving if they need help.

If your father is okay with the marriage, this is the most important, because he is your wali and you can go ahead with the marriage. If you don’t have a father, your brother becomes your guardian and his opinion and consent is what counts. If you truly want to marry this man, try to […]

Deobandi is not part of the saved sect as they are not on the way of the Prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam and his companions. They are however Muslims in general but those who believe in things that nullify Islam such as the belief that all what is in the universe is Allah, which […]

Of course not! He is sinful and will come on the day of judgement with his face tilted. He must fear Allah and provide for your mother and his children and also divide the time between the two families.