Fiqh of Marriage

QUESTION: I keep on rejecting bcz of niqab..here in pak there are many firqah system like beleiving in mazaars… my parents are tensed because of not getting proposals… every other person say to my mom.trll her to compromise even the matchmakers.. what should i do

Fiqh of Marriage

21 Aug

ANSWER: It’s not permissible to marry a person who does shirk. Remain steadfast and Allah will send your way someone who will make you happy who is upon the truth and with good aqeedah and akhlaq.

QUESTION: If any matter agreed verbally while deciding to marry a man/woman, but they were not written down in the Nikah contract. Do those conditions have to be fulfilled as conditions by the spouses?e.g women asks if she can do halal job after marriage & the groom verbally says yes but not written & after marriage the groom says she can’t do the job & as it is not written so he is not sinful /obliged to

Fiqh of Marriage, Marriage Contract

20 Aug

ANSWER: If she makes it as a condition and he agrees to it as a condition and the witnesses testify that it was a condition, this is binding even if it was not written down. But if none of the above took place, this was not a condition and it is not binding.

QUESTION: Is it permissible for a wife to kiss her hubby on forehead infront their adult children when hubby is leaving home for work ??

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

18 Aug

ANSWER: This is recommended and permissible.

QUESTION: Should i tell my future wife that my parents often mad to each other (uncondusif family situation), bcs i didnt want her to be upset if she knows after mariage or it is considered as telling family aib which is prohibited?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

12 Aug

ANSWER: This is of no concern to her or her family as she is marrying you and not them. Respect your parents and do not go around telling people about their flaws.

QUESTION: A person asked “How to console yourself when u know according to society you are ugly(not fair,short, fat) & face discrimination people really love outside beauty, even relatives love those who are pretty, good man wants pretty faces.so what we do as ugly? can you give me some motivational suggestions?I am really sad, I lose my confidence, “

Fiqh of Marriage, Psychological and Social Problems

05 Aug

ANSWER: Beauty is something that is trivial and subjective as there are so many women who are not beautiful yet lead the happiest lives by the Mercy of Allah azza wa Jal. Put your trust in Allah and ask Allah in the sujood of your prayers to send you a righteous husband who would cherish […]

QUESTION: Can my mother live with me after my marriage? My one brother lives in abroad n another one is no more, and my father doesn’t live with us.. What should i do if my husband denies it? Can i leave him?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

31 Jul

ANSWER: If your husband denies it, you can’t have her live in his house without his consent. If there is no one at all on earth who can take care of her even if by renting outside help and she is unable to live alone without your help and assistance, you should leave your husband […]

QUESTION: Sheikh, I pray to Allah for a husband who has the correct Aqeedah, is pious, has a good heart, prays and fasts but I most of the time pray that he should be good looking because I really really want my husband to be good looking, am I wrong if I pray this most of the time?

Fiqh of Marriage, Other

26 Jul

ANSWER: No problem. However, most likely he would also be asking Allah for the same!

QUESTION: When I got married to my husband I did not love him. I committed adultery. I cheated on him. But now it’s been a year we are married. I really love him. I didn’t know he is such a good man and I didn’t realise I am wrong at that moment.I’m changed now. I repented. I cried. Should I tell him the truth? I’m totally changed now. I pray 5 times. I cover myself. I wear hijab. I left all haram things.

Fiqh of Marriage, Sins

25 Jul

ANSWER: It’s not permissible at all to tell him or anyone about your previous sins! If you tell him, Allah will not forgive you such sins and most likely he will divorce you on the spot.

QUESTION: If a girl is forced into a marriage by her family against her will, will the marriage still stand ? What does islam say about this ?

Fiqh of Marriage, Invalid Marriages

22 Jul

ANSWER: If she agrees to get married, the marriage is valid. If she fights it and resists his attempts to approach her, the marriage is invalid.

QUESTION: I have a sister in law she has only been married to my brother for hectic 2.5 years and in those years she has made my mum suffer by making my brother constantly get angry at my mum. He will get his own home but he never wanted to leave home and made that clear when he got married but now has to due to his wife behaviour. please advise.

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

19 Jul

ANSWER: He should have moved out right after he got married because Allah has given the right to women to ask their husbands for a separate accommodation after they get married. Better late than never! Let them live their lives without any intervention from the in laws.

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