Fiqh of Marriage

QUESTION: Can my husband not allow me all the time to even step out of home.i feel suffocated to be at home all the time.not even my side of family functions or any thing. Can i go from out without his permission when I’m at my parents house

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

22 Feb

ANSWER: You must not leave the house without his permission However if he is that controlling and preventing you from your basic human rights, you shouldn’t be in such a marriage as it would only deteriorate more and more You should have your father and siblings talk to him and if he doesn’t change, you […]

QUESTION: Which is more rewarding and which must come first, cooking for your husband or praying dhuha?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses, Prayer

11 Feb

ANSWER: Cooking for your husband.

QUESTION: I spend on my husband because he hasn’t had a proper job for 3 years, we got married recently thinking he had got a pay raise but unfortunately his job isn’t paying. He isn’t looking for jobs and also his mother wants us to send money to her frequently so she can pay for her daughters education and go to hotels and pay for her large apartment. Do we have to send to his family when he owes me a lot

Fiqh of Marriage

09 Feb

ANSWER: You are not obliged to spend a penny on him, the house or anything at all. Let him man up or kick him out of the house until he is able to pay bills and provide for you. Do not give him any cash in his hand nor send mother anything unless you are […]

QUESTION: If my wife is sick and I asked her to have intimacy but she refused due to her sickness and pain Is she sinful and cursed for rejecting the relation ship

Fiqh of Marriage

08 Feb

ANSWER: Of course not! Allah doesn’t burden a soul beyond what it can bear.

QUESTION: I am a girl 28 years old and now my parents wants me to get married and I also said them okay but as soon the things got final I dont wanna marry and I am under extreme pressure now. I have been praying 5 times and tahajud too and went to umrah as well and discuss this to Allah as well but I feel not ready at all. I just wanna ask you am I sinful?

Fiqh of Marriage

07 Feb

ANSWER: I don’t know! When you are 28 years old, what are you waiting for? Every year you delay your marriage, you will be proposed to by a widower or someone who needs a second or 3rd wife or by a divorcee who has 3 children and wants you to take care of them! If […]

QUESTION: My husband’s family didn’t let us be with him. He settled a separate setup for us near his parents but His mother threw us out of it. Now he will not keep us and not even giving money for my children expenditure if I will not go back. I want to tell you his mother had already done this 4 times before I requested my husband to move somewhere he denied. Nd said My mother is more imp. Plz guide me

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

06 Feb

ANSWER: If your husband is a mommy’s boy and not a real man, you have no other alternative but to go back or to file for divorce. It is your right in Islam to have a separate house. If you are in a country that honors your rights as a wife and a mother, take […]

QUESTION: I’m living abroad with my wife and son. My parents wants to visit us for 10 days, but my wife doesn’t like them coming as last time they came before 2 years and stayed for 3 months, there was misunderstanding between my wife and mother. As my mom keeps on nagging my wife even for small things. I’m stuck in between and don’t know what to do. Please advise

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage

23 Jan

ANSWER: Your wife should understand that these are your parents and that you love them and they can come and stay for a few days. It’s not as if she has to live with them forever! You have a right to host them for 10 days without her complaining and she can stay out of […]

QUESTION: There is a girl whom i really respect because of her aqida and knowledge. She strictly follow the manhaj of alhul sunnah wal jama’a and we also follow the same scholars. I really want to marry her but the only thing is that she doesn’t cover her hair. What is your advise regarding this? Because i think maybe i can advise her and tell her to wear it when doing the nikkah or after and she could list

Fiqh of Marriage

19 Jan

ANSWER: Such a woman is not a practicing Muslimah regardless of what she portrays herself to be. She is not a good wife material and I wouldn’t advise you to marry her. Look for someone who walks the talk and would be a good role model to your children

QUESTION: Is there any chance that groom’s family is superior than a bride’s family in any form in Islam?

Fiqh of Marriage

18 Jan

ANSWER: No. Families are free and equal.

QUESTION: Can a sunni muslim marry a zaidi shia?

Fiqh of Marriage, Invalid Marriages

17 Jan

ANSWER: Zaidi shia are the closest shia to Muslims with the exception of the Jaroudi shia who are similar if not worse than the Imamiyah rafidah However, it is still not advisable at all to marry from such a sect even when they are closest to us as this is not a game but rather […]

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