Fiqh of Marriage

QUESTION: I’m a Muslim woman.I’m planning to marry a guy who is born Muslim but doesn’t believe in our religion.He doesn’t follow any other religion.But he is a good man, willing to provide for me, loves respects me.We haven’t done any haram things.He respects my religion and allows me to practice it.If I marry him, is the marriage gonna be valid?If we get intimate after marriage will it be counted as zina?

Fiqh of Marriage, Invalid Marriages, Pre-Marital Relations

18 Dec

ANSWER: This is totally prohibited and the marriage would be invalid, you would be living in zina and the children born would be illegitimate as a Muslim woman can only marry a Muslim man!

QUESTION: My elder brother nor my younger sister, talks to me, what should i do i also dont try to talk to them but i feel like we should talk, we all talk yo the youngest sister hut not to each other, even when we have work to do we communicate to our young sister. Parents trying there best but no progression happening

Character and Morals, Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives, Fiqh of Marriage

14 Dec

ANSWER: You are all in great danger as the Prophet salla Allahu Alaihi wa sallam warned that those who sever ties of kinship will not be admitted to paradise. Failing to communicate with one another and having hearts filled with arrogance and resentment surely fits the description of “severing ties of kinship” like a glove.

QUESTION: I want to marry a guy but my parents are not agree because he belongs to karachi and i am from islambad. And distance is alot b/w two cities. And secondly he does not earn yet. But Allah says if you like someone marry them and Allah will make them ghani (rich) . Isnt it wrong to just reject it because of just these reasons?

Fiqh of Marriage, Invalid Marriages

14 Dec

ANSWER: Your father has all the right to reject whomever he does not see fit for his daughter and any marriage without his consent is considered void therefore, you must try to convince him or move on with your life.

QUESTION: I am 26 years old and I am not married yet. Everybody wants a modern girl butI am not modern as per today’s standards and even I am short too. The way divorces are happening these days, I am afraid to even get married.Due to my hormonal changes, I am interested in marriage but I am afraid and not interested of being physical, that is why I am afraid of getting married, so what should I do?

Fiqh of Marriage

13 Dec

ANSWER: Getting married is completing half of your deen therefore marriage is an act of worship that you should consider if you want to please Allah azza wa jal. As for being afraid, there are so many successful marriages by the Grace of Allah that far exceed failed ones! Therefore, be positive and hope the […]

QUESTION: How do I ask about my potential wife’s libido? It is not something I can ask her directly, nor is it something that I can ask in front of her wali without making things awkward. It is important to ask about it, because if she doesn’t have a high libido, but the husband does, it could lead to problems between the two in the future.

Fiqh of Marriage

12 Dec

ANSWER: You are not qualified to be married to someone who is chaste and decent as you have mental issues! No REAL Muslim man would dare to ask such a question unless he is marrying a prostitute! Her father and brother would most likely beat the heck out of you and then kick out of […]

QUESTION: Sheikh a christian girl told me that, if i get marry to her then she’ll revert to Islam, what should i do?

Fiqh of Marriage, Religions

11 Dec

ANSWER: You must repent to Allah, cut all communications with her and look for a righteous practicing Muslim woman If she was really interested in Islam, she would have accepted it unconditionally Do not play Russian roulette with your religion and the fate of your children

QUESTION: As a couple in a long-distance marriage, husband asks wife to wear hijab and protect her aurah, but his Instagram is full of sexy women. Could this make Allah angry with him and affect the rizq and blessings from Allah?

Character and Morals, Fiqh of Marriage

03 Dec

ANSWER: Of course! Such sins will have a negative impact on his rizq and blessings from Allah especially when it is done publicly like this.

QUESTION: My husband gives sadqa (charity) from his salary not only for his parents, wife, and children but also for all his sisters’ children. However, this leaves him with insufficient money to run our household. Is this correct according to Islam? Please explain with reference to the Quran and Hadith.

Charity, Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

03 Dec

ANSWER: No, he is accountable for providing for his wife and children as his priority and is sinful for neglecting them He should first fulfill obligations, then give extra charity if he can.

QUESTION: Is it permissible to give something non-essential from the house if the wife knows in advance that the husband will not object to it?

Fiqh of Marriage

02 Dec

ANSWER: If she has a general permission from the husband then no problem, otherwise its a major sin!

QUESTION: Sheikh, if a husband working abroad sends money to his parents but does not provide financial support to his wife, is he sinful?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family, Kind Treatment of Spouses

01 Dec

ANSWER: Yes.

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