Pre-Marital Relations

QUESTION: I am 21 years old man studying in university. I fell in love with a girl and started a relationship. It’s been 6 months. I’m ready to marry her as her family accepts me. But since I have done haram relationship with her, should I breakup and repent or should I continue my approach of marrying her?

Character and Morals, Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations

11 Jun

ANSWER: You must stop all communication and contact with her immediately and sincerely repent to Allah while showing deep remorse for this Haram relationship and after that you can approach her father and proceed with the marriage if you think that she would be a good Muslim wife and a good mother for your children. […]

QUESTION: I have feelings for a guy who doesn’t reciprocate, we dated Back then, but now we aren’t together and now My parents arranged a proposal with someone I’m not interested in. I’ve been praying to Allah since 2 years now, to bring the guy I like into my life with love and in my naseeb. Should I wait, give up, Or keep praying? As it is said DUA CAN CHANGE THE NASEEB.

Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations

20 May

ANSWER: You must move on with your life and not allow yourself to be treated as a doormat unless you are one! Someone who is not interested in you and had moved on with his life, you should have the self respect and forget all about him and ask Allah for forgiveness over what you […]

QUESTION: I was in a haram relationship 3 yrs ago but Allah swt guided me, I left it. I sincerely repented and it’s been 2 yrs I’m a practising muslim, i pray, fast, I do hijab and left all the haram things. Suddenly after 2 yrs everyone knows about my past relationship, everyone! Someone exposed my past relationship pictures and that too without the hijab. I don’t know what to do sheikh😭

Pre-Marital Relations, Repentance

04 May

ANSWER: You can’t do anything about it now. This is a test from Allah and it shouldn’t hurt you or harm you as this was the consequence of your actions in the past. As long as you have repented and you mended your ways to become a practicing Muslimah, don’t worry about what they say […]

QUESTION: I want to do a nikkah with a girl with whom i have haram relationship but my sister tells my father not to marry me with that girl otherwise she’ll marry a boy which she likes but the boy she likes goes to peers and wears amulets n ol.She doesn’t let me marry she cries and pressurizes the family.I tried to make her understand but she cries loudly and says she has anxiety

Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations

20 Apr

ANSWER: What kind of a family do you live in? This sounds more like a soap opera with all family members indulging in affairs and haram relationships, may Allah protect us! As long as you both have repented and expressed remorse and cut all relationships and communications between the two of you and the girl […]

QUESTION: If a girl and boy are in forbidden relationship and one of their freind reads nikkah in mockery infront of two other freinds and they accepted…are they in a serious nikkah or it isn’t halal

Invalid Marriages, Pre-Marital Relations

16 Apr

ANSWER: This is not nikah but totally prohibited and mockery of Allah’s rulings! These two are fornicators and committing one of the major sins in Islam!

QUESTION: Im 15 and left a haram rel. for Allah after 2yrs.He isnt muslim.He promised to marry me.i did isthikhara 5-6 times & evrything was perfect than before & asked signs from Allah and got it. whn i think abt moving on my heart just cant accept it. I lv him so much & so did he.He liked islam.Would i be sinful to pray for his hidayah evrydy & ask to get married to him?(can nvr tell my parents abt this)

Pre-Marital Relations

15 Mar

ANSWER: It is totally prohibited for you to be in contact by any means with such a person whether he is Muslim or not. You must repent to Allah and show remorse over your past and ask Allah for forgiveness You can ask Allah to guide his heart to Islam but must not be in […]

QUESTION: If a couple chit chat while keeping fast will their fast be of no use as they are doing something haram while keeping fast?

Fasting, Fasting and Ramadan, Pre-Marital Relations

14 Mar

ANSWER: This doesn’t break the fast but the reward would definitely be not the same and they’re sinful for having this relationship in general and more so when fasting!

QUESTION: We used to like each other, hence our parents decided to solidify the relationship, Recently, we got engaged However, my fiancé and I have always wanted a Nikkah. He asked his parents several times to have our Nikkah done, but they think that Nikkah without rukhsat is senseless, as no one knows what the future holds. In this case, are we sinful?

Engagement, Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations

13 Mar

ANSWER: You aren’t married and hence being in contact with one another is sinful If your father agrees, you can have the contract done without his parents knowing about it and you are now man and wife and can talk and communicate without being sinful

QUESTION: First, please do not judge me. I am very ashamed of my self. I desperately need help/advice. When I was 18 years old, I got into a haram relationship with a boy. We were not allowed to get married due to cultural differences. 4 years later, I married someone else and the boy also got married However, throughout our marriages we always kept in touch and occasionally met

Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations, Sins

03 Jan

ANSWER: The question is not complete! However, how do you want me not to judge you and from what I have read, you are married but you are cheating on your husband? No Muslim woman would do that no matter what the reasons are! Either be faithful or ask him for divorce. Have some shame […]

QUESTION: I just want to know if I forgive my going to be spouse’s past where she fell in haraam doings and accept her.. Will I be rewarded from Allah for it? I’m afraid to break her heart as I feel her honesty and love for me? Note: she said all her past from her own without me asking it.

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses, Pre-Marital Relations

29 Dec

ANSWER: Yes, you will be rewarded for that. She was wrong in telling you what Allah has concealed. However, you must never bring this topic up again if you want Allah to reward you.

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