Pre-Marital Relations

QUESTION: First, please do not judge me. I am very ashamed of my self. I desperately need help/advice. When I was 18 years old, I got into a haram relationship with a boy. We were not allowed to get married due to cultural differences. 4 years later, I married someone else and the boy also got married However, throughout our marriages we always kept in touch and occasionally met

Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations, Sins

03 Jan

ANSWER: The question is not complete! However, how do you want me not to judge you and from what I have read, you are married but you are cheating on your husband? No Muslim woman would do that no matter what the reasons are! Either be faithful or ask him for divorce. Have some shame […]

QUESTION: I just want to know if I forgive my going to be spouse’s past where she fell in haraam doings and accept her.. Will I be rewarded from Allah for it? I’m afraid to break her heart as I feel her honesty and love for me? Note: she said all her past from her own without me asking it.

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses, Pre-Marital Relations

29 Dec

ANSWER: Yes, you will be rewarded for that. She was wrong in telling you what Allah has concealed. However, you must never bring this topic up again if you want Allah to reward you.

QUESTION: Sheikh, i am a teenager,i am attracted to my friend’s mother, she is married and around 45 years old, i know she wont be mjne, sometimes i am jealous of her husband, i get fear of missing out. How can i console myself and how can i get her out of my mind. Please give me advice.

Pre-Marital Relations

17 Dec

ANSWER: These things happen when you do not fear Allah and wander your gaze when Allah ordered you to lower your gaze from non mahrams! Never go to your friend’s house nor have any interaction with his mom! How would you feel if your friend had the same feelings towards your own mother or sister?

QUESTION: I’m married and i had a sinful past, I regret what i did and still repenting to Allah to fogive me but I’m scared m’y husband Will find out about It and not forgive me and divorce me, he Is very doubtful about me so if he makes Deep résearces he might find out. Do you think Allah will conceal m’y past ans cover for my sins? Is there any dua i can say to

Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations

16 Dec

ANSWER: In sha Allah He will conceal them and its totally prohibited to confess to any of your sins in front of ANYONE, especially your husband. These feelings are from satan to depress and sadden you. Simply ignore them and never contemplate on them and concentrate on being an obedient and a loving wife to […]

QUESTION: Sheikh, I was in a Haram relationship for 4 years and now I’m out of it after my proposal for nikkah was rejected by her, I was not a practicing Muslim now I’m practicing Islam , my main concern is I’m left with gifts from her such as clothes etc what do I do of them as I don’t want to reach out to her for returning them.

Pre-Marital Relations

15 Aug

ANSWER: No problem in using them. However, if this reminds you of her and chances are that you would get back with her due to this it’s best to not keep them. Give them away in charity.

QUESTION: Skeikh I (14) had a question I really like this girl (14) and she is happy when she starves herself and I don’t want her to do that but she has body imaging issues I heard a lecture from another mufti (mufti Menk) he said if you partner is happy with something the other one should engage with that person skeikh should I engage with her I want her to eat she lost 4kg I want her to eat

Pre-Marital Relations

08 Aug

ANSWER: Before asking about her weight and what you want and what you don’t want, you need to become a real Muslim first and ask what Allah wants from you! It is totally prohibited in Islam to talk to girls and befriend them like this and Allah hates this and is angry with you for […]

QUESTION: I’m dealing with emotional battles everyday. I’m trying to quit on haram things but my heart is attached to a non mehram who is not even willing to marry me. But still I’m obsessed over him cus he lied to me that he’ll marry me but later on refused.

Pre-Marital Relations

12 Jul

ANSWER: This is your test from Allah! Those who fail their test, end up with depression in this life and in hell fire on the day of judgement!

QUESTION: Sheikh, I got married recently, I dated some men and I hurt them by leaving them and marrying my present husband, I really feel guilty and I have been asking Allah for forgiveness, I don’t have the guts to ask them for forgiveness as I don’t want to create communication again, please sheikh do you think Allah will forgive me or I have to also ask for their forgiveness personally?

Pre-Marital Relations, Repentance

08 Jul

ANSWER: You MUST NOT tell them anything nor contact them in any way AT ALL! Block them all and delete anything that reminds you of any of them. Simply repent sincerely to Allah while showing deep remorse and be a good and obedient wife to your husband, fulfill all his rights and move on.

QUESTION: “the Messenger of Allah said: “There is nothing like marriage, for two who love one another.” Sunan ibne majah 1847.” Sir we know love before marriege is not allowed,then what kind of love is meant here?

Pre-Marital Relations

01 Jul

ANSWER: This is love that doesn’t involve premarital relationships.

QUESTION: What to do when my ex left me in a bad position where i fall for sins with him where he promise to be with me for marriage; he never fear Allah to do such things in Halal way but when comes to maary step back & set himself as a good man turn to Allah at the same time making connections with me trying to be bad and at the end he marry some other woman! In this case what I suppose to do i se

Pre-Marital Relations

26 Jun

ANSWER: Repent sincerely to Allah while showing deep remorse for this grave sin that you were in and MOVE ON! You must be thankful to Allah for removing you from this haram relationship and saving you from hellfire!

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