Pre-Marital Relations

i am a widow i am 40 yrs and i Have been through big trouble now abt 2 months ago there is a man of 31 yrs have been friend and he tell me he love me but i told him not in zina and i told me to make nika but in secret without anyone would know not even my and his parents jis like this and he will not stay with me just one hour a day but my heart doesnot agree he is young and afraid of

Invalid Marriages, Pre-Marital Relations

26 Apr

ANSWER: This is zina! A marriage without the consent of your father and without witnesses is zina. It is totally prohibited to be in communication with him as he is a non mahram. All what he is interested in is one thing and you know that! You sounded to him as a desperate woman and […]

Brother you told my 17 years daughter not to marry a Shia as she was in love with him. Now she is saying that allow me to just talk to him as I won’t marry him now. He lives in Karachi n we live in Lahore, Pakistan. Same country with different cities. She used to play online game with him, she says she wants to just play the game with him online. Please guide her.

Pre-Marital Relations

11 Apr

ANSWER: This is not permissible and one of the traps of Shaytan to make her go back in entering a haram relationship! Part of her repentance is to cut off all communication with him while showing deep remorse and sincerity. No boy ever talks innocently with a girl except that he intends to win the […]

Sheikh their is this girl I used to know since I was 13 then I stopped talking to her Alhamdulilah but there is something I did sometimes ago comes back to me I feel I also should ask her forgiveness

Pre-Marital Relations

04 Apr

ANSWER: This is one of the traps of Shaytan to get you to talk to her again. You must not have any communication with her as she is non mahram to you. Repenting to Allah sincerely is sufficient.

I have been went to terrible heart break from a guy having relation from 5 years ,I am 21 now and everthing have fallen apart it breaks me every day .Salah and Duas is in track after i ended college.But my mind heart and brain keep telling me ok it happen he is gone i dont want him now .My past haunts me alot as i am fed up from myself.Parents help me to get out of this .

Pre-Marital Relations, Sins

21 Mar

ANSWER: This is something between you and Allah! If you repented from your sins, you can’t regret it and feel remorseful for breaking it! Allah will not forgive you if you are not remorseful over such sins and repenting sincerely to Him. A sign of true repentance is that you move on with your life, […]

I was in a haram relationship and ive ended everything. I want to completely block him but im scared because he has my pics and our selfies together. Im scared because if i block he may threaten to send our pictures to my family. So is it okay if he has my pics as im repenting to Allah daily

Pre-Marital Relations

07 Jan

ANSWER: You must break off all communication with him and block him off completely. There is nothing you can do about him having your pictures. All you can do is repent to Allah while showing deep remorse and sincerity and ask Allah in the sujood of your prayers to conceal for you your sins. If […]

I realised that i m in a haram relationship with my gf and impossible to make it halal cause of my family so i told him not to do so…we both love each other too much but now i decided to end it up and she is hurted too much crying and as i know to break someone’s heart is qabira sin so what should i do will i face the azab of that sin Plzz answer me

Pre-Marital Relations

22 Dec

ANSWER: Stop all communication with the girl and repent and Ask for Allah’s forgiveness. The sin is in maintaining such a haram relationship, not in breaking it off or in making someone cry because you stopped doing haram! If she is muslim and you both repent to Allah sincerely, you can marry her if her […]

Is it permissible to get to know the person you wish to marry?

Pre-Marital Relations

13 Dec

ANSWER: This is called dating and it is not permissible in Islam.

Is it fornication to be friends with the opposite gender if you start to develop feelings for the opposite gender and make jokes and be friends?

Pre-Marital Relations, Sins

07 Dec

ANSWER: This is not fornication but this is prohibited and sinful and would eventually lead to fornication.

Please what is the Islamic ruling on courtship? The lady insist on not talking to the man as she has no intention of marrying him,and he insists she should give him chance to see if he can win her heart…is that allowed?

Engagement, Pre-Marital Relations

11 Nov

ANSWER: There’s no concept of courtship in Islam, none whatsoever! Dating is haram and the man can only see and talk to a girl in the first meeting after he proposes to her father and he agrees, when he goes to see her for marrying, in the presence of her wali, that is it.

Sheikh, I am currently endgaged to a Qari and Hafiz-e-Quran but I don’t think that I deserve to be married to him because I have committed Zina many times. Any advice for me?

Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations

29 Oct

ANSWER: As long as you have sincerely repented to Allah and you are away from such heinous major sins now and blocked all means that would lead you astray again, you can get married to him and be a good, dutiful wife. You must not ever tell a single person about your sins, not even […]

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