ANSWER:

Having such a relationship with him is haram to begin with and any type of communication with him is prohibited.

Most likely he is playing you. 

Fear Allah and cut all communications with him while repenting to Allah and asking Him for forgiveness and showing sincere remorse.

QUESTION: I’m a girl i love someone outside my country he has intentions to marry me but his parents not agree. I know Allah can turn people’s hearts around. Can i keep praying for them, especially his parents to soften their heart? Or we should just give up?

Pre-Marital Relations | August 19, 2025 12:27 am
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QUESTION: A girl and i have intentions of marrying each other. i have met her parents and they have set conditions for me to meet in regards to my career and financial stability before we can have a nikkah. as i work towards those goals, is it allowed for us to talk to each other about each other’s wellbeing, career developments and other matters of life all within the limits of decency in the meantime?
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QUESTION: A boy used to study with me, and we liked each other. Then we got closer to each other and eventually started having a physical relationship. We knew that this was forbidden, so we thought of doing a verbal Nikah (marriage contract). We had only one of his friends as a witness, and we verbally accepted each other in Nikah. So, is our Nikah valid according to Shariah or not?