Fiqh of the family

if son disrespects his father is father allowed to curse him in that case? And is father allowed to say that the home and money is his only?

Fiqh of the family

23 Jan

The son must not do or say things that triggers the father to become upset. He is sinful for that and committing one of the most major sins in Islam. The father has no right and can’t deprive his son from his share of the inheritance.

I am the only son of my parents. For last two months, I have to live separately from my parents in the same city with my wife due to their mutual misunderstandngs. Show me the right way under the light of Quran and Sunna. Whom I am more obliged to?

Fiqh of the family

11 Oct

You did the right thing by moving out. You must visit them frequently and check up on them to see if they need anything,

My relatives especially my in-laws call me Stingy/Miser, is this allowed in Islam? It is important to share the background with you, basically I believe Moderation as prescribed by Prophet (PBUH) and based on this Islamic value I refrain from buying branded things for myself & family, I am very particular about NOT taking any DEBTS to fulfill needs or desires.

Fiqh of the family

09 Aug

As long as you’re doing the obligations towards your family and they don’t miss any of the necessities of life, this is ok.

My single mother is a non believer.she is very paranoid to b alone at home.we 3 daughters r settled with our husbands.my question is who should provide for her who should take care of her.she is working.i want her to quit work.worried for her.pls advise

Fiqh of the family

09 Aug

All of you!

My kids are 22 and 20.they have habit of waking late and repeatedly miss fajr.after years of indiscpline, I now told them house rules are to awaken 7:00 everyday including weekends /holiday to establish some routine (they say fajr between them and Allah and i can’t say).I threaten to keep their phones when they dont wake at 7:00. but they say I don’t have right to discipline anymore.is it true?

Fiqh of the family

07 Aug

If they are defiant and disrespectful like this, you may cut off their pocket money, take away their cars, not pay their mobile phone expenses so that they would adhere and respect you as a father. This is intolerable behavior and attitude from them.

I am living in the UK and we currently receive money from the government and they give each child money to support them but this money is not enough for us and my husband does not give us money -(which he also receives from the government and claims it is his own)- to support his own children or to give masruf. he has left us to do businesses abroad and refuses to give money to us .

Fiqh of the family

25 Jul

It is his duty to provide for his family!

A brother asks, if his father stops him from leaving a beard or wearing trousers above ankles and he obeys him to avoid his anger, does it amount to shirk as he is following the commandment of his father than Allah(swt).

Fiqh of the family

19 Jul

The son is sinful.

My husband’s brothers have slandered him and put some buhtan on him and also humiliated him in front of his children. Despite of all this, is it still compulsory on him to maintain kin? Or in this circumstance he can maintain distance from them due to their bad behavior with him.

Fiqh of the family

19 Jul

He must honor kinship for the sake of Allah and not for him personally.

My father is not practising Shia. My granddad told my dad to transfer £1,000 to me as a gift. My dad later told me he is going to keep it aside for me as savings which is under his full control (I can’t take however much I like from it). I want to know what Islam says. Is the money my right? If so, should I claim this right or give it up? I am almost 24 years old Muslimah.

Fiqh of the family

12 Jul

The money Is your and you can claim it with respect and while being dutiful. You don’t want to lose your father over 1000£!

Muslim parents who have not taught any Islamic teachings to their children. Fortunately by Allah,s rehmat children become very good and poise Muslims . Question is will parents also get reward for aakhirah as sadiqa from children,s good deeds.

Fiqh of the family

08 Jul

It seems that they wouldn’t get any reward except what the children do for them or make Duaa for them.

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