Fiqh of the family

Sheik, if the husband has problem with all family members and keeps telling me if I have to stay with him I have to hate the people he does not like as much as he does. else you can leave. My question is will I be sinning if I do what he says and severs the tie of kinship and not speak to anyone.

Fiqh of the family

27 Oct

It is not your family members, so it will not be counted for you as severing the family ties, but to hate people is repulsive and should be avoided. Rather you should try, tactfully, to soften his heart and make dua to Allah for that. But if he is ordering you to sever your own […]

When a big arguement happens between the spouses and the husband separates in bed, is he allowed to go to take one of the childs room and make him (10) sleep in the mothers bed or with his sisters?

Fiqh of the family

23 Oct

Sharing the bed with his mother is not permissible. Sharing the room is ok

I am married from last 18 months and my in-laws don’t like me. They talk wrong about me to my husband. Every time they lie to him. But my husband knows they r wrong. He tries to give explanation but they r not ready to hear or accept; I want to see my family happy. Now I’m 9 month pregnant, they sent me to my parent’s home and don’t bother to call once. I don’t know how to make everything right. Help me.

Fiqh of the family

22 Oct

Try your level best to be patient and tolerant! Allah told us in the Quran that whenever we face hostility with kindness, our enemies will turn into friends and allies! By overlooking their aggression and what is meant to hurt you, you are making them ashamed of themselves and they will eventually stop. Deal with […]

Is it prohibited to pray to Allah for a specific child?and if not wat s the dua for getting a male child cos I have two daughters already

Fiqh of the family

13 Oct

This is permissible. There isn’t any prescribed Duaa.

Can we name our child as Hashir,what does it mean ,is it one of the names of our beloved prophet s.a.w.

Fiqh of the family

10 Oct

This is permissible.

I wanted to ask that is it prohibited for a real brother sister to normally lie on a same bed or same place if they had to sleep. Is it necessary that they sleep on separate beds or in different rooms?

Fiqh of the family

08 Oct

Yes, they have to be separated at the age of 7.

If a woman doesn’t have good relations with her in laws and doesn’t visit or talk to them BUT doesn’t stop her husband from maintaining his ties of kinship. So by not having anything to do with her in laws, will the woman get the sin of breaking ties of kinship? What kind of relations come under the category of breaking ties of kinship?

Fiqh of the family

04 Oct

No, she is not sinful.

If the husband and wife argue, and the wife disrespects the husband and the husband disrespects the wife, are they both sinning the same or is the wife carrying more sin for being how she is towards her husband?

Fiqh of the family

02 Oct

I don’t know! It depends on the situation and who is the aggressor.

Can i give my money to my mother and father for doing hajj. Is it permissible? ( I studied by my father’s money. He spent for me a lot).will I get reward from allah for this?

Fiqh of the family

01 Oct

You can give them money if you wish to and you will be rewarded.

Is it necessary for me. to call my each maternal aunt individually or I can send a message to all of them in a group in watsapp once in two weeks. is it sufficient. Please note that talking to one or other of them individually may lead to unwanted discussion, which would take us further apart.

Fiqh of the family

16 Sep

You should speak with them and not just message them.

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