Fiqh of the family

what would you do if your siblings are becoming corrupt because of the way your parents are raising them?

Fiqh of the family

02 Mar

IN a kind manner, try your best to advise your parents on how they must improve their upbringing. You may involve an elder or a learned person (in deen) to help you talk to them and guide them. In parallel, advise your siblings and help them understand the right and wrong, the good and bad […]

What is the ruling on upholding the ties of kinship with people who force you to commit sins, ridicule you if you object, and were/are disrespectful to one’s father/mother?

Fiqh of the family

02 Mar

You minimize contact with them to the absolute minimum if they are harming you or your family in any way. However, in any condition, you cannot cut off. maybe calling upon them once in awhile to check upon them or greeting on occasions or in times of their need suffices.

my in laws hate me bc my husband treats me well. We all live together. My mom/sis in law has been through my things and told my father in law lies about me. Now he believes them and is criticizing my husband and i. My sis in law has insulted me many times about how i am dependent on my husband. How do i deal with ignorant inlaws who cannot see the truth. Is it haram for me to stay away from them?

Fiqh of the family

02 Mar

No, it is not haram for you to stay away form them, but deal with them diplomatically. Still Stay polite with them or you will lose your husband to side with them even if you are truthful, if you react to their acts. The most thing that kills them is when you don’t react and […]

I need to ask is it important to have permission of parents to do any course of deen (divine knowledge) If we have a doubt that they will not give permission and reject it. Is it ok if we don’t ask them?

Fiqh of the family

29 Feb

As long as you are fulfilling your obligations towards them, there is no need for asking them for permission. However, you must get permission from your father before leaving the house as you are a female.

I am a 2nd wife. I have a 1-year-old daughter. My husband’s parents don’t want to keep any relation with me or my daughter. They never visit us nor allow us to visit them because I am the 2nd wife. When I tell my husband that his parents are guilty of severing ties of kinship, he always says that they have not cut off the relationship so they are not sinful. Are they guilty or not? Please guide.

Fiqh of the family

15 Feb

Patience is required. Don’t worry as this would end one day and they will be happy to see you and your kids in sha Allah. They are sinful for not seeing their grandchild. This is a reaction that many have. May Allah guide them.

is it halal or haram to call father to her father-in-law?

Fiqh of the family

19 Jan

No problem.

I am a Muslim male. I respect my mother so much but a few days back she told me that she had talked to her brother about getting his daughter married to me. When I said I don’t want to marry her, everyone stopped talking to me and started cursing me, saying that I will never get success. In this situation, what should I do? I really don’t want to marry her. How do I explain this to my mother?

Fiqh of the family

27 Dec

They are not allowed to force you. Be kind with them and tell them the results of such a marriage. The wife will not be happy and neither will you and this would cause problems in the family.

If my husband is stopping me to go to my mother’s place, should I obey him even if my mother is very sick? What does Islam say?

Fiqh of the family

27 Dec

You have to obey him. He is sinful if he doesn’t allow you to see her.

brother i wont go out to learn knowledge bcz my husband dont like going out alone but he make everythng easy for me to learn in home internet nd he print pdf for me my q is do i recive same reward the one go out and learn pls advise me

Fiqh of the family

01 Dec

Yes, and more than that because you obey your husband.

My mother slapped me and kicked me out of her house because I did not want a gift she and my sister bought me for my birthday as I previously told them I did not want to celebrate it as it was haram and instead If they insist to give me money to give to charity. Please advise

Fiqh of the family

23 Nov

You were wrong in what you had done! Celebrating it is prohibited but accepting a gift is permissible. Apologize to your mother and be dutiful to her and don’t upset her.

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