You were wrong in what you had done! Celebrating it is prohibited but accepting a gift is permissible. Apologize to your mother and be dutiful to her and don’t upset her.

My mother slapped me and kicked me out of her house because I did not want a gift she and my sister bought me for my birthday as I previously told them I did not want to celebrate it as it was haram and instead If they insist to give me money to give to charity. Please advise