Fiqh of the family

I am living with my mother (my father expired) my mother worships idols .I have explained many times about islam but she not accepted. Can I live with her or can I live separate?

Fiqh of the family, Religions

30 Mar

ANSWER: You can live with her and serve her dutifully. Allah mandates that you honor your parents despite their behavior towards you even if they are disbelievers, therefore, try to soften her heart towards Islam and be dutiful. You must put your trust, reliance, and dependence on Allah and think positive of Him azza wa Jal.

My daughter has become disobedient and does whatever she likes, We live in Canada and she refuse to listen to us. She is dresses up unislamically. I had taught her everything but now she doesn’t follow anything. She is 21 now and says it’s her life and she will do what she likes cause she is an adult.I pray day & night .what do I do with her ?

Fiqh of the family

10 Mar

ANSWER: This is one of the greatest setbacks of living in a Kafir country! You don’t have much choice in all of this as you can’t do anything to her as this is against the county’s laws. All what you can do is give her sincere advice and never approving anything haram she is doing!

My mother curse me all the time if i don’t listen 2 her like to let her control my marriage. She ordered me not to take my wife to shopping or to give her money even to extend i should not let to her talk to her own parents. And i don’t do as she command She start cursing and start saying i will go to hell to not to obey her and she says there is blssng in mothrs cursing. Is it true?

Fiqh of the family, Kind Treatment of Spouses

10 Mar

ANSWER: Your mother is transgressing against your wife and she has no power or control over her. It is obvious she wants to enslave her. If you are a real man, you should protect your wife from such aggression and pay no attention to what your mother is ordering you to do, while being respectful […]

In what way can a child who is not financially bouyant take good care of his/her parents?

Fiqh of the family

08 Mar

ANSWER: By physically helping them and by being dutiful and obedient to their wishes.

What are the guidelines for a Muslim woman to wear a proper hijaab when leaving house and when non mehrams are home ??

Fiqh of the family, Halal/Haram Matters

06 Mar

ANSWER: She must abide fully by the proper hijab from head to toe when leaving the house and in front of non-mahrams at home. She must also not mix or communicate with non-mahrams whatsoever.

im a revert from christianity, and have a trouble answering myself how should i treat my mother. Iwe been brought up by my grandmom since 7 years old due to may dads death and my moms alcoholism. My question is do i have to continue having relations with her or no? Because her behaviour pushes me away and i do not want to interact with her. Thank you

Fiqh of the family, Religions

01 Mar

ANSWER: You need to be dutiful to her and respectful while observing the boundaries of Islam and not crossing them! Buy her groceries and pay her bills if she is in need financially and be kind to her as Allah may guide her to Islam through you.

Please enlighten me with “who has more right on a girl ones she is nikkahfied , The husband or her parents ? If under any circumstances she is to make a choice whom should she choose ? Her parents or her husband ? Allah will question her about who’s right ? The parents or the husband ?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

21 Feb

ANSWER: She is required to be dutiful towards her husband and her parents. If a conflict of interest were to arise, she must give priority to her husband providing she lives with him. If she lives under her father’s roof, her father is her guardian and she must obey him however, she must be diplomatic and not offend or disobey her […]

Sheikh,me and my mom are very friendly with each other that we joke and kid one another. I want to ask as I am very Frank with her just like friends, We speak we argue but no one minds. am I sinful sheikh? Means should I stay as a child or like a friend. PL guide me

Fiqh of the family

16 Feb

ANSWER: This is permissible, if the mother doesn’t mind the casualness and informality. However, there is a thin line between disrespect and being causal with her. Besides, sometimes you would cross the line without paying any attention to that which might win you the wrath of Allah.

My parents r married but live in two seperate countries. And when I stay with either one of them, I always witness them cheating on each-other. I haven’t caught any of them with zina but I have seen my mum talk with other men and I have also witnessed my dad get a random woman’s phone number. I’m scared to say anything because I know that i will end up getting angry and raise myvoice.What do I do?

Fiqh of the family

14 Feb

ANSWER: The consequences of any interference would be catastrophic! You don’t have any evidence that would stand up in a court of law and you would be slandering without such evidences. Remind them of Allah and what Allah has prepared for those who go against His commands and stay out if it.

Can a boy make dua for his father…if his father divorced Child’s mother ? after child’s mother divorce… can a child become SadqaeJaria for his father ? however his father did not play any role for his child’s Tarbiyah ??… may be bcz of divorce or separation

Fiqh of the family

13 Feb

ANSWER: The father divorced his mother, not the child! Allah mandates upon the child to be dutiful, serve, and honor his father while anticipating his reward from Allah alone. Part of being dutiful is to make dua for his father and visit him often to see if there is anything he can do for him.

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