Fiqh of the family

My mom is close to 50years and I’m just 27 years old, my mom calls me too frequently reporting my dad to me, even my siblings, she complains a lot about so many things of which are mostly trivial, even when I’m sick or preparing for exams, these complaints get to me so hard that I become sad. I don’t want to be rude to her but she’s not considering my feelings, please sir how can I handle this sir

Fiqh of the family

22 Aug

ANSWER: Always remember the time she had spent with you when she was pregnant with you and after giving birth and how she raised you up and spent sleepless nights for you! This should make you more than happy to listen to her and to comfort her.

The question is a bit harsh,I know.But i really feel like Allah doesn’t care about women.He only created her to please man.We have marriage issues,we have social pressures, we have a time limit on having kids, etc. How is that fair, Men can marry multiple women, but Allah made woman such that she can’t bear the thought of another woman with her man.and then in hell our number would exceed

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Fiqh of the family

21 Aug

ANSWER: There is no harshness in your question! It is only the thing that separates faithful Muslims from people who do not submit their will to Allah and object to His rulings similar to how Satan refused to obey Allah and prostrate to Adam like the rest of the angels and justified it by saying […]

What is the ruling on a girl sleeping with her mother on the same bed?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Fiqh of the family

14 Aug

ANSWER: They should each have their own separate blankets.

I feel very distant from my own mother because she married a new guy recently ,(after divorcing my father), and i feel like she has no care or love me like before. It’s not feeling, it is true sheikh. My own father left us many years ago, But now my mother got married. I feel like i have no one sheikh. How do i overcome this?

Fiqh of the family

12 Aug

ANSWER: Your mother has her own life and must focus on her husband as this is her duty as a muslim woman. As for you, if you fill your heart with Iman, you will find that you need no one as Allah is always with you. Remember Allah all the time and fill your life […]

Sheikh my question is if one’s father is giving or taking riba n son is still studying n he is dependent on him would son also be guilty?

Fiqh of the family, Halal/Haram Matters

02 Aug

ANSWER: The sin is only on the person directly dealing with interest and not on those who are dependent on him.

My question is: after keep resisting I don’t have the possibility of blocking my mum from shaving my beard (I don’t shave it myself she does it) also she wants me to walk around with my Awrah opened. She even buys me Shorts which don’t cover my knees. Am I sinful for this if I stop resisting? She threatened me to sever the kinship with me if I do not do what she says.

Fiqh of the family, Halal/Haram Matters

26 Jul

ANSWER: Are you still suckling or not? You are either lying or you have a mental illness that requires seeing a psychiatrist. It is prohibited to obey your mother in such sins even if this leads her to cut you off and not talk to you!

Do I have to seek permission from my father if I want to fast on 9th of dhul hijjah?

Fasting, Fiqh of the family

21 Jul

ANSWER: No.

My parents talk to my wife like they have authority on her.They try to control her in various matters.I explain them politely that they shouldn’t do it,they can speak nicely & she will listen,if she misbehaves or has mistakes,they should complain to me.They become very upset If I say this.Am I sinful?She is given separate accommodation though but she only eats with them.

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of the family

13 Jul

ANSWER: They have no right, none whatsoever over your wife and she should have her own room, washroom and kitchen that nobody enters without her permission and she must not be forced to sit with them and eat! Be a man and protect and honor your wife as she is your responsibility and at the […]

Can I get married to the girl I love but parents are not agreeing because we are still very young?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

08 Jul

ANSWER: If the boy is financially independent, as a man, he must propose to the Girl’s father for her and if he agrees, he can get married to her. He does not need anyone’s permission to get married except the girl’s guardian. If you are serious about marriage, approach her father for her hand in […]

My mother has committed so many sins even things like zina due this my brother’s always misbehave with her doesn’t respect her its permissible in islam

Fiqh of the family

05 Jul

ANSWER: This is not permissible at all! Your mother is your gate to Paradise and Allah mandates that you honor, respect, and be dutiful towards her despite how she behaved with you while anticipating your reward from Allah alone. Talking to one’s mother by exploding on her with anger surely reserves one’s spot in Hell. […]

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