Fiqh of the family

QUESTION: My family is trying to force me to take a student loan in the UK to go to university. They are getting very angry and threatening to kick me out of the house, having aggressive argument with me for hours. They say that some scholars say it’s permissible and call me extreme muslim what to do?

Fiqh of the family, Halal/Haram Matters, Riba

17 Aug

ANSWER: You must not obey them unless you want to reserve your seat in hell as riba is one of the 7 major sins of Islam.

QUESTION: Is it a legitimate reason to not go to the mosque if there is a situation that the government forces the youth to go to the army if security forces find a person going outside from the time of maghrib upto fajr and family is forcing their children to not go out

Fiqh of the family, Prayer

16 Aug

ANSWER: If the situation is as you have described & you don’t go out anywhere at all and stay home the whole night after maghrib then yes, you can pray home

QUESTION: Is it wrong way of dawah if someone or people in family start taking reminders personally on whatsapp status or group i mean they felt that it was posted 4 them intentionally? And they feel hurt whereas we posted for the sake of Allah In Sha Allah.

Fiqh of the family, Knowledge & Propagation

13 Aug

ANSWER: If they thought out of their own that this was intended to them, this is their problem! Keep on doing good things and don’t pay attention to such people.

QUESTION: If I were to carry out full financial responsibilities towards my wife, I can’t help out my elderly parents. My dad can’t find a job and my mum has to work to make ends meet. On paper, it is a man’s duty to work and spend on his family, but the reality may not be so straightforward. How to go about?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family, Kind Treatment of Spouses

06 Aug

ANSWER: You are obligated to provide for your wife and children and will be accountable for that. Supporting your parents is virtuous, but if you cannot afford it, you are not sinful.

QUESTION: I’m a revert living with my non-muslim family who often go to fortuneteller & sprinkle ashes/water on me, Allah knows what’s in the food, is it permissible for me to move to another city, minimize the contact, find a job where I won’t be able to cover myself as per shariyah because of my old name on gov ids (people are hostile against muslims here)until I find someone to marry.

Fiqh of the family, Religions

01 Aug

ANSWER: This is very dangerous and tricky! Satan is so close to you when you are alone and not abiding by the proper hijab that it is very easy for him to lure you to fall into sin or even reject your Islam! You must protect yourself and Islam first and try to get married […]

QUESTION: Sheikh my muslim grandmother asked me to dial a number for her. When I asked who it is she said its an astrologer. I just made an ambiguous excuse that the number can’t be called but didnt tell her that it was shirk to call astrologers and seek help from them. Is this kufr? I dont feel mightve been a good idea to tell her off.

Character and Morals, Fiqh of the family, Shirk and its different forms

31 Jul

ANSWER: This is weakness of iman from your side but it is not kufr. You will be asked on the day of judgement why you didn’t tell her about the ruling.

QUESTION: Sheikh, my brother skips Salah and isn’t practicing, but my parents want a religious, deendhar bride for him. Won’t this lack Kufu? Is it right to pair a non-practicing man with a religious woman, and how can I advise my parents properly on this?

Fiqh of the family

27 Jul

ANSWER: You must advise your parents that they must not cheat people like this as they wouldn’t accept someone like your brother if he were to propose to their daughter.

QUESTION: We know that if a wali of a women is not present her marriage is not valid, but what if she does not speak anymore with her father and has no parental uncles etc. The imam has to be the wali right? But is his prsence in the nikkah sufficient or must he act like a wali doing things like doing a background check on the men etc?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family, Marriage and the Muslim Family, Marriage Contract

24 Jul

ANSWER: It’s not permissible at all for the imam to be your wali! If your father genuinely is not responding, then go meet him personally and even after that if he refuses to be present for your wedding and is not willing to even deputise his brother or his father or your brother to act […]

QUESTION: “I was born into a —– family, but I cannot tell my family that I have embraced Islam. I want to perform my daily prayers, but if I go to the mosque, my family will beat me. In this situation, is it permissible for me to offer my prayers at home instead?

Fiqh of the family, Prayer, Religions

22 Jul

ANSWER: If the threat and fear are genuine and there is a real possibility of you being harmed, it is permissible to pray home as this is between you and Allah and He alone can know whether this is true or not.

QUESTION: I Asked You Question About My Mom And Sis Going To This Guy To Do Something About The Person Who’s Not Interested In Marrying My Sis Should I Warn That Person And His Family About This the Thing is They Also Do Biddah Would Probably Go And Get Taweez for Help If There In Bad Situation Because That’s How Normal It Is Here

Fiqh of the family, Jinn, Witchcraft, Black Magic and the Evil Eye

22 Jul

ANSWER: You shouldn’t tell him any thing. Just warn your mother and sister that they will be kafir if they go to fortune tellers or people dealing with black magic.

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