Fiqh of the family

ANSWER: You are not obliged to take care of him and his family while wasting your life on that! Focus on your studies and your career and once you get married and settled, if you have any extra, you can contribute to take care of him and your mother only by providing them with the […]

QUESTION: Mother asked me to wash dishes when I wanted to sleep a lot, I didn’t obey her and said that I will do it tomorrow, then she offended and washed dishes herself. Am I sinful?

Fiqh of the family

15 May

ANSWER: Yes, this is disobedience.

QUESTION: Sheikh is it permissible for children to disobey their parents when they tell their children in Ramadan “Dont fast because you have school and exams…..you will feel thirsty”. This is done by many parents in India. What’s the ruling on this?

Fasting, Fasting and Ramadan, Fiqh of the family

12 May

ANSWER: Parents are sinful for this & children must not obey their parents in this regard as there’s no pleasing or obedience to anyone at the cost of displeasing and disobedience to Allah

QUESTION: I will be marrid soon with a divorce girl. Mom & I have requested my sisters and her husbands to keep it secret from my extended family members about her being divorced and other matter related to her. They refused to do as they claim it will be lying if my extended family member ask them and not tell them the truth Are they sinful if they tell everyone about it where as we asked to keep secret

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

05 May

ANSWER: There is no sin in telling the truth and you should be man enough to accept this and not be ashamed of it! If you are not man enough and you are ashamed of it, don’t marry her!!

QUESTION: My brother’s a doctor but he hasn’t worked since he graduated. Father supporting him financially for years. Now he wants to be a singer Sheikh, what should we do? Mom’s really upset and I’m worried he’s going down the wrong path.

Fiqh of the family

30 Apr

ANSWER: This is your father’s fault for supporting him and providing for him while he is not manning up to his responsibilities. You must advise him with good manners, wisdom, knowledge and diplomacy and make a lot of dua in the sujood of your prayers for Allah to guide him.

QUESTION: While counting eidi, i had Rs 4650 while my younger sister had around Rs 8000. to balance our eidi my mom made her give me Rs2000 and she did it willingly i did not ask her. is that 2000 halal for me?

Fiqh of the family

27 Apr

ANSWER: As long as she gave it to you as a gift, this is fine.

QUESTION: I seek your guidance regarding fairness between children. If a parent has children aged 5, 13, and 15, and chooses to gift a phone to the 15-year-old based on their perceived maturity and responsibility, would it be considered unjust to not give the same to the younger children—especially if the parent believes they are not yet ready for such a device?

Fiqh of the family, Pedagogy education and upbringing

24 Apr

ANSWER: It is not permissible to favor one over the others in gifts. However, if one needs something such as a car or a phone due to their age, this is not a gift but rather an essential thing they need in their lives.

QUESTION: I’m in my 40s and have sincerely tried to marry, choosing religious and stable suitors. My only wali, my father, rejects them because he discourages my sunnah lifestyle. He’s not fully practicing, and I fear falling into sin. If he continues to block me unjustly, is it permissible to marry via wali hakim with proper witnesses, possibly overseas to maintain family ties?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family, Marriage Contract

21 Apr

ANSWER: If he has blocked many good suitors, you can bypass him and your wali would be your paternal grandfather or your brother or your paternal uncle in this very order.

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