Fiqh of Marriage

Sheikh my husband disrespects my parents and I many times tried to make him understand about it.what is the ruling in Islam about it and what should I do

27 Jul

ANSWER: Don’t talk about your parents in front of him at all and do not let them meet each other. Go to your parents house without him and whenever he tries to bring their topic up, change the topic and talk about something else discreetly and even after this if he doesn’t stop insulting them, […]

We r searching rishta for our brother,my brother age is 22 but he is induged in some bad habbits like alcohol smoking should we tell all these thing where we r doing his rishta or not ? My mother says to me i am alnoe come with me for visiting people but i do not feel this fair and justice wth the family we will do rishta (marraige),but if we will tell them no one will marry him.what to do In ths?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

27 Jul

ANSWER: You must not be a part of this process at all and remind your mother in a respectful manner to fear Allah! Ask her how she would feel to have been married with someone who smokes and drinks alcohol that she had no clue of before marriage! Would she want her daughter to marry […]

Sheikh I read a hadith about the dayooth. I do not wish to be amongst those men.I buy my wife hijabs to wear she sees me pray everyday also is around sometimes when i give dawah. Will i be blamed & labeled as a Dayooth by allah if she chooses not to pray or leaves the house without hijab ? What should i do?

Fiqh of Marriage, Women clothing

27 Jul

ANSWER: It is your responsibility to see to it that she’s properly dressed in the Islamic hijab while going out and you will be answerable before Allah if you allow her to go out without hijab. If she doesn’t listen, admonish her and threaten her with divorce. If this doesn’t work, send her to her […]

Sir our prophet SA asked to see the bride before marriege,so that he can feel attraction to the dride.Is this applicable for both man and women?I refused few person who earns halal nd pray but i was totally not attracted to their look.My mom say,why u will feel attraction before marriege?after marriege you will feel attraction.But is it right to say yes against my heart?it feels huge stress to me

Fiqh of Marriage

24 Jul

ANSWER: You are allowed to see your potential spouse before marriage at the initial marriage interview conducted by your father. If you were not attracted to him, there is no problem in refusing as you are the one who has to live with his looks for the rest of your life however, you must not […]

I’m going to get married to a man who is righteous (his CV indicates so and i’ve met his family and him with my mahram). We both are on the same page with having a halal wedding. What advice would you give to tackle parents who seems to want to please people rather than Allah?

Fiqh of Marriage

17 Jul

ANSWER: What do you mean by ‘to please people’? If they want music, free mixing or any haram practices at the wedding, you must put your foot down and not allow this to happen but with utmost respect, diplomacy and by never raising your voice in front of your parents.

I want to do Nikkah but my dad is late. Who can be my Wali in this situation if my uncles live very far and no smooth relationship between I and my uncles?

Fiqh of Marriage

11 Jul

ANSWER: Your wali is your paternal grandfather. If he is dead, then your eldest brother. If you don’t have brothers, your paternal uncles. If you don’t have any, then your paternal cousin.

Is there any ruling that after nikah a couple should compulsory have a physical relation to keep their nikah valid? What if the couple just had their nikah done and the bride still didn’t shift with her inlaws?

Fiqh of Marriage

10 Jul

ANSWER: This is baseless. No problem in living in her parents home until her husband can afford to take her with him.

I’hv been married for 13mnths,Alhamdulilla(Im 27yrs old,a teacher.my husband 33yrs,srvice holder).bt without my husband’s family concern.n nw when he informed his 3younger sisters(all r married) they told them not to say this to their father he will get heart attack(as he is nt agree to his son’s decision).his sisters gve him choice-either leave me or his family.nw what to do?

Fiqh of Marriage

02 Jul

ANSWER: If your father (wali) had given his consent to this marriage, this is a valid marriage and his parents approval does not impact your marriage. However, it’s best for him to talk to his father about this and let him know about the marriage as he will be devastated when he comes to know […]

Sheikh is intercourse allowed for a couple during pregnancy ? A female had an abortion in her 4th month. Some say it was due to having intercourse during pregnancy as spotting was seen for 2 months of pregnancy too.

Fiqh of Marriage

02 Jul

ANSWER: No problem in having intimacy during pregnancy unless the doctor forbids this due to some medical condition.

I am 39 yrs old and my husband is 46, his 2nd wife is 27. Since he married her a yr ago, i feel he lost interest in me. He says things that hurts me a lot. He doesnt speak lovingly and romance with me as he used to, and a lot of times he says i am old now. And passes comment on my body and says my hands are rough. Bcos of this i am in a constant grief. Now i feel like leaving him. Will i be sinned

Fiqh of Marriage

29 Jun

ANSWER: You must weigh the pros and cons of your decision wisely as you will be the only one who will suffer its consequences. You must not let shaytan destroy your marriage like this. So many women who opt for divorce only wish they hadn’t when they are left with no one to support them […]

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